This is my space to share my quest to collect as many broken branches as I can in my fractured family tree which resembles a bramble bush more then a proper tree. As I go forward in this blogging journey I hope to share how I have searched far & wide for family - with no regard for where they come from or if I should really want them.
You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

Showing posts with label reunion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label reunion. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 28, 2025

The Buchner Family ~ All together

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2025: Week 22 (REUNION)


This is week 3 of my blogging style switch

For the next several weeks I will post a photo and a brief description. 

This new style of posting is due to CMC Arthroplasty surgery on my left thumb. 

I will continue with this style until my thumb has sufficiently recovered.

~

I'm not sure what the occasion was OR what year this photo was taken - BUT I love  this photo of Lyle & Nina Buchner with their 5 children.


Chris' father, Ron, back row 2nd from left

Father:
Ronald Clare (Ron) Buchner 
B: 24 Jul 1946 Tillsonburg, Oxford, Ontario, Canada
D: 6 Feb 2021 Puerto Vallarta Hospital, Puerto Vallarta, Jalisco, Mexico


Grandparents:
Lyle Clare Buchner 
B: 7 Sep 1926 Tillsonburg, Oxford, Ontario, Canada
D: 29 Jan 2023 Tillsonburg, Oxford, Ontario, Canada
&
Nina Merle Vannatter 
B: 18 JAN 1926 Houghton Township, Ontario, Canada
D: 5 SEP 2002 Tillsonburg, Oxford, Ontario, Canada


Seeing the family ALL together!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***




Find A Grave:

Lyle Clare Buchner. Retrieved May 28th 2025 from
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/262889479/lyle-clare-buchner

Nina Merle (nee Vannatter) Buchner.  Retrieved May 28th 2025 from
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/126361561/nina-merle-buchner

Ronald Clare (Ron) Buchner. Retrieved May 28th 2025 from
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/262908688/ronald-clare-buchner



Photos:

Personal


Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



If you reference or use my blog posts in any way please
include a link to the specific blog and
credit http://somehowrelated.blogspot.com/
My blogs are ©Deborah Buchner, 2014 forward.
All rights reserved.
Please & Thank you!

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Monday, August 7, 2023

Sweet & Innocent I Was ~ Even I Have a Hard Time Keeping a Straight Face

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2023: Week 32 (REUNION)


Having never been to an actual family reunion it makes it hard to write about one for this week's blog.

I could simply say I am in need of a family reunion to attend, and end this week's entry.

BUT since I feel that is not in the spirit of writing weekly I will share a random memory I had this morning when I was looking at amusing memes on Facebook.

Over the years my mother frequently told the tale of my showing off her black lacy undies to all the neighbours. 

It seems I put on a pair of her black lacy underwear, pulled them up to my chest like a little jumpsuit, and ran down the street with her chasing after me. 

About the same age I was when the undies adventure happened

My takeaway was how fast was I when I was 2 that she couldn't catch me before I was down the street OR was she laughing so hard she couldn't get enough air to actually run? 

Then again ... she was pregnant with my brother when I was 2 so maybe that was why she couldn't catch me before all the neighbours saw her knickers!!!

When I heard this story I would often think I was just too cute to have been that much of a handful


Then again there are a lot of stories about my mischief making. 

Those knees are pretty bashed up for a quiet little girl
who didn't get into any mischief
😂

A few of the tales my mother told many times over the years.

When I was 18 months I ate 3 packages of her birth control pills. They were fairly new  in their availability, and too expensive to replace. That brother mentioned above was born 10 months after my stomach was pumped. 

Also around the age of 2 my parents woke to find my cat and I stuck to the kitchen counter where I had climbed to eat the suckers hidden in the cupboard. It appeared to my patient grown ups that I had licked each one, and then dropped it to the counter where the cat and I were sitting on the sticky suckers.

Another morning - that adorable dog in the photo and I were playing fetch with potatoes and carrots on the kitchen floor after emptying the fridge drawers. 

My takeaway from these stories ... I didn't have a lot of supervision in the morning!


Remembering the family stories that were told over and over again!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***



Photos:

Personal


Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



If you reference or use my blog posts in any way please
include a link to the specific blog and
credit http://somehowrelated.blogspot.com/
My blogs are ©Deborah Buchner, 2014 forward.
All rights reserved.
Please & Thank you!

______________________________________________________________

Saturday, July 13, 2019

Bayes Family Reunion - Cousin Bait

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks: Week 28 (REUNION)


In the summer of 1991 there was a Bayes family reunion that my branch of the family didn't attend. We did submit updated information for all of us that was included in the take away book created for that weekend.



Front Cover



A few years ago my mom's cousin's wife (yes it can get way more complicated than that list, and still I understand the connections) sent me three copies of the book. One for each of my sons and myself. 


Just after Christmas I made contact with a DNA match on Ancestry who was related through my Bayes family line. When I asked her for more information she replied that she honestly didn't know. She shared that her dad had moved away from the immediate family, and had lost track of them. I offered to mail her a copy of the Bayes family reunion booklet after finding her, her parents, and her grandparents listed in it.

After she received the book in the mail she sent me a heartfelt email explaining that her dad had been very emotional while he reattached to his family through the stories, drawings, and details.  I loved that I (and the relative who sent me the booklets) was a part of this moment for this branch of my family tree. 



The book outlines the descendants of Solomon & Artimissia* (nee Merrill) Bayes:

* sometimes spelled Artemissa



First page, followed by pages of details about each family member

comment or message me if you would like copies or more information





Artimesa (as spelled) death registry noting mother as Phoebe Lotrip (as spelled)


Solomon Bayes (August 31st 1885 ~ September 16th 1907)
Married - November 8th 1867
Artimissia (also spelled Artemissa) Merrill (June 1st 1842 ~ November 14th 1936)



~~~~~~~~~~~
CHILDREN


Franklin Sheldon Bayes (January 20th 1869 ~ abt 1955
married -July 12th 1898
Mary Story (March 26th 1879 ~ abt 1911)
my X2 great grandparents
they had 5 daughters and 1 son (my great grandfather)


Franklin Bayes with great grandchildren: George, Florence & Margaret



Herman Leonard Bayes (October 1970 ~ unknown)
married - February 14th 1900
Annie Elizabeth Kohaelach (aka Kohelick) (August 1879 ~ unknown)
they had 3 sons and 1 daughter


Vida Blanche Bayes (July 5th 1875 ~ November 1966) ~
never married



Henry Ernest (Harry) Bayes (March 10th 1880 ~ November 9th 1971)
married - December 7th 1910
Annie May (Anna) Yabsley (June 22nd 1887 ~ July 1st 1982
they had 7 sons, raising 6 (one died as an infant)


Ethel Maude Bayes (August 13th 1882 ~ March 15th 1946

married - December 18th 1907
Leonard (Len) Carr (September 3rd 1885 ~ June 10th 1970)
they had 1 son and 1 daughter



Artemissa with daughters Ethel & Blanche (recorded on back)






Blogging as cousin bait!



This is why I search - 

Cause ... 


You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!



**** UPDATE ****
The bait worked - Within 24 hours I have three cousins who are now excitedly awaiting the reunion booklet copy they asked me to send them. 









***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***



Sources:
Bayes Family Reunion Booklet, July 27-28 1991 


Links:
Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/


If you reference or use my blog posts in any way please
include a link to the specific blog and
credit http://somehowrelated.blogspot.com/
My blogs are ©Deborah Buchner, 2014 forward.
All rights reserved.
Please & Thank you!