This is my space to share my quest to collect as many broken branches as I can in my fractured family tree which resembles a bramble bush more then a proper tree. As I go forward in this blogging journey I hope to share how I have searched far & wide for family - with no regard for where they come from or if I should really want them.
You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

Monday, April 15, 2024

Stepping Outside the Prompts ~ X6 great grandfather STEPhen Claus

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2024: Week 16 (STEP)


Taking a different approach to this week's STEP prompt I will write about Chris' 6th great grandfather, Johan STEPhen (Stephen) Claus (born Abt. 
1695 in Waltersdorf, Germany, and died Abt. 1780 likely in Germany). His son was the immigrant ancestor for this family line. 

5th great grandfather
Johan Georg (John) Claus
BIRTH 10 APR 1750 • Backnang, Württemberg, Germany
DEATH 18 JUN 1824 • Vineland, Niagara, Ontario, Canada
He was 56 years old when his daughter, 4th great grandmother Mary, was born via his 3rd wife. 

John Claus was a Loyalist who settled in Ontario. He received land grants in what later became known as Ontario. 

He was married 3 times. 

He's buried with his 2nd wife at the Vineland Mennonite Cemetery. 

"Another interesting feature of the site is that not all of the people buried there were Mennonites. In fact, just a row over from Mennonite pacifists lie John Claus and his wife Mary, United Empire Loyalists who came over as part of a group that included Mohawk Chief Joseph Brant. Unlike the Mennonites, who came from Pennsylvania, Claus and Brant came from Tryon County, New York, after fighting with Butler's Rangers (in Brant's case commanding his own warriors as a British ally), a fierce unit that fought guerrilla-style warfare and terrorized the New York countryside in support of the British Crown. The Claus stones are some of the earliest that have survived, a fact that is easily discernible by the amateur carving of the inscriptions, which have uneven lettering, and in the case of Mary's stone, is slightly slanted." 1

Chris descends from the only child, Mary, with his 3rd wife, Margaret. I haven't yet found where Margaret is buried. Their daughter Mary was born, raised and died in this area that became home. This was also the area their descendants remain in. 

Mary Claus (X4 great grandma)

BIRTH 1806 • Bayham, Elgin, Ontario, Canada
DEATH 19 MAY 1879 • Bayham, Elgin County, Ontario, Canada
married
Isaac Williams (X4 great grandpa)

BIRTH 19 MAY 1802 • New York, USA
DEATH 19 MAR 1868 • Bayham, Elgin Co, Ontario, Canada

This is Chris' father's maternal line. It is their son who merged his father's maternal & paternal lines when he got married.

X3 great grandparents:
Robert Henry Williams
BIRTH 31 MAR 1831 • Ontario
DEATH 12 FEB 1896 • Bayham, Ontario, Canada
and
Katherine E Rittenour
BIRTH 11 OCT 1836 • Niagara, Ontario, Canada
DEATH 18 SEP 1920 • Norfolk, Ontario, Canada

This Williams line also connects to Chris' mother's maternal line. 

While Chris grew up primarily in Western Canada he was born in Southern Ontario where these first settlers arrived. The majority of his relatives continue to reside in the nearby vicinity. 

When adding new folks to our Bramble Bush to this area it's a must to check if they are already there because there is a good chance they are since all of Chris' lines wrap back around to each other. 


How the Bramble Bush visual was first created!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***


Footnotes:

 1  Doors Open, Lincoln, Niagara, Ontario - The Vineland Mennonite Burial Ground. Canadian Heritage Matters. Originally published October 12th 2019. Retrieved April 12th 2024 from
https://canadianheritagematters.weebly.com/in-the-field/doors-open-lincoln-niagara-ontario-the-vineland-mennonite-burial-ground


Sources:

Claus, John. Undated Upper Canada Land Petition of John Claus Received at the Executive Council Office on 8 Aug 1795. Retrieved April 12th 2024 from 
https://sites.google.com/site/niagarasettlers/upper-canada-land-petitions/petitions-c/petitions-chewett-to-claus#h.p_ID_450

John Claus. FindAGrave. Retrieved April 12th 2024 from
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/111715736/john-claus


Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



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Monday, April 8, 2024

Footloose ~ Another Dancing Cousin

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2024: Week 15 (SCHOOL DAYS)


In thinking about School Days I began to reminisce about the movie Footloose
The roots of this Bramble Bush were in high school when this iconic teen angst movie was released in 1984. I was a fan. Chris was a fan. We watched the re-make in 2011, and still loved it. 

Not too long ago I received an email from Family Search identifying how our Bramble Bush intersected with the actor Kevin Bacon who played the teenager from Chicago, Ren McCormack, who was the hero who fought to bring dancing to the small conservative town he moved to.

The email noted Chris's maternal 7th cousin 1x removed is Kevin Norwood Bacon. 

YUP - that Kevin Bacon is related to Chris via his mother's paternal line!!!  


The match is via Kevin's mother's maternal line.

This is also the same line that connects Chris to Patrick Swayze
                ... it seems dancing is in the blood via this branch

Read more about the connection to Patrick Swayze in my prior blog  
Snake Hips - Swayze

The 6th degrees of separation also connect to his wife,  Kyra Sedgwick, who we now know is Chris' 10th cousin 1X removed on this same line via her paternal line since Kevin & Kyra are 9th cousins X1 removed in addition to husband and wife. This makes their children cousins to themselves - double cousins, and they will have pedigree collapse in their line. 

Chris' 5th great grandparents via his father's maternal line are also his 4th great grandparents on his father's paternal line - this is an example of pedigree collapse and being a cousin to yourself. It makes figuring out where folks fit using just their DNA expected matches a bit challenging.

Back to the movie Footloose. 

One of my fondest memories related to the movie FOOTLOOSE was dancing with my dad at a wedding to the song Footloose when I was a teen. 

It was a super fun night, and I thought my Dad had all the best moves. 



When memories leak....
                                           
 



Fondly remembering my dad!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***

Sources:

Kevin Bacon, American actor, director, and musician. Britannica. Retrieved April 2nd 2024 from
https://www.britannica.com/biography/Kevin-Bacon

Finding Your Roots. Season 1, Episode 4: "Kyra Sedgwick and Kevin Bacon". Retrieved April 2nd 2024 from
https://www.pbs.org/weta/finding-your-roots/about/meet-our-guests/kyra-sedgwick

Footloose (1984 film).Fandom. Retrieved April 2nd 2024 from
https://movies.fandom.com/wiki/Footloose_(1984_film)

Kevin Bacon discovers his wife Kyra Sedgwick is his cousin. McLaughlin, Nina. Joe. Originally published February 18th 2024.
Retrieved April 2nd 2024 from
https://www.joe.ie/international/kevin-bacon-wife-kyra-sedgwick-791631#:~:text=Before%20you%20think%20there's%20anything,aware%20of%20the%20relation%20before.

Kyra Sedgwick. Hollywood Walk of Fame. Retrieved April 2nd 2024 from
https://walkoffame.com/kyra-sedgwick/

Six Degrees Kevin Bacon discovers his actress wife Kyra Sedgwick is his cousin. Sherwin, Adam. Independent. Originally published March 2nd 2013. Retrieved April 2nd 2024 from
https://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/tv/news/six-degrees-kevin-bacon-discovers-his-actress-wife-kyra-sedgwick-is-his-cousin-8517229.html


Photos:

Teardrop. Kushang Dhiman, 22 February 2021. 
Adaptions made by this blog's author April 2nd 2024
                                     - cropped to the eye only
Retrieved from 
https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Teardrop_from_an_eye.jpg

Personal


Video:

Footloose (Official Video). Kenny Loggins
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ltrMfT4Qz5Y

"Let's DANCE!" | Kenny Loggins Footloose Ending Scene.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e-OG0EyJyV8&list=RDe-OG0EyJyV8&start_radio=1&t=213s


Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



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Monday, April 1, 2024

Chris Was Right ~ Family Traditions

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2024: Week 14 (FAVOURITE RECIPE)


Easter 2024 saw a change in our meal planning. 

When our kids were small I did all the cooking including the feast type meals. Once I returned to full time work Chris shared cooking duties, but took over all feast meal preparation. Over the last few years I have been in a support role - I do all the sides, and he does the turkey & ham. 

He always does a rotisserie ham on our Bar-B-Q for Thanksgiving, Christmas, and Easter. Thanksgiving & Christmas includes a turkey done in the oven as well.

This year Chris was doing yard maintenance & pressure washing in the area of the Bar-B-Q so I offered to make the ham in the oven. 

After a bit he reluctantly agreed, BUT first there was a discussion about the Scalloped Potatoes.

Chris asked me if I was putting cheese on top. I said I wasn't planning on adding cheese. He immediately launched off with a discussion about the importance of cheese in scalloped potatoes. I pointed out that traditional scalloped potatoes don't have cheese. 

As he continued talking I pictured him with a 'change my mind' protest sign.


Next he asked if I was going to use the mandolin he proudly bought - I said 'No. The potatoes need some meat on them.' The look on his face clearly showed he didn't agree. 

The scalloped potatoes discussion finally ended with my statement  'if you want them done your way then you are going to have to do them'. 

As we sat down to dinner a few hours later I realized special feast foods are rooted in memory from our family of origin. 

The scalloped potatoes, and carrots were from my childhood. 

The yam and squash were from Chris', 

The ham was from neither: we both grew up in families that boiled the ham before putting it in the oven to bake. 

My mother always put pineapple rings with a maraschino cherry in the middle all over the ham with a brown sugar glaze. 


We began our marriage with hams boiled before baking with pineapple rings & cherries exactly as my mother made them.

By the time our children were growing up Chris was the master ham maker on the BBQ. He included grilled fresh pineapple as a nod toward my childhood memories. He made his own glaze that is a secret family recipe - I don't believe he has passed to our children yet.

After thinking about him grilling pineapple for me I decided to make the scalloped with a cheese sauce & grated cheese on top. 

As we ate dinner Chris informed me he had only been asking for cheese on top, but not in the potatoes. 

The recipe in the 5 Roses Cookbook my mother gave me agrees with Chris. 

more about this cookbook in a previous blog
Mom's Christmas Baking ~ When Substitutions Will Not Do

It seems his tradition was the right one.

In following the traditions of both of our families we will be eating leftovers for days before it all goes into a pot of soup.



 

You heard it here 1st - Chris was RIGHT!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***



Photos:

Personal

Scalloped Potatoes, 5 Roses Cookbook, Lake of the Woods Milling Company Limited, 1983 Pg 99

more about this cookbook in a previous blog - Mom's Christmas Baking ~ When Substitutions Will Not Do
https://somehowrelated.blogspot.com/2023/12/taste-of-home-my-mothers-pies.html



Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



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Tuesday, March 26, 2024

Admired Grandfather ~ Baptist Lay Pastor

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2024: Week 13 (WORSHIP)

"worship verb   wor·​ship ˈwər-shəp   also  worshipped also worshiped; worshipping also worshiping
transitive verb
1: to honor or show reverence for as a divine being or supernatural power
2: to regard with great or extravagant respect, honor, or devotion" 1

Thinking about who/what to write about for this week's prompt I considered the 2nd part of the definition of Worship.

When Chris and I first met in 1992 it was pretty clear how much he admired his grandfather, Clifton Alexander Lee. 

Chris on the left, Grandpa Clifton in the center

This grandfather, he so admired, offered a safe place for him during his  chaotic growing up years.

Chris was 12 when his grandfather died, and as a young adult he spoke about him with such love and admiration.

Remembering     
                                        Clifton Alexander Lee
BIRTH 20 MAY 1902 • Northfield Centre, Brant Co., Ontario, Canada
DEATH 9 SEP 1979 • Kelowna, British Columbia, Canada

Grandpa Clifton was also a Baptist Lay Pastor.
For this reason he fits the full definition of worship.



Taking a moment to remember the relatives who created safety & security!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***



Footnotes:

1  Definition of Worship. Merriam-Webster Dictionary. Retrieved March 22nd 2024 from https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/worship


Photos:

Personal


Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



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Wednesday, March 20, 2024

From Birth (1926) To Death (2023) ~ How The Times Have Changed

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2024: Week 12 (TECHNOLOGY)


Recently I was looking at 1931 census record for my grandmother (who was 4) & her family when I noticed they were recorded as not having a radio. In fact none of the families on that page had a radio. 

This got me to thinking about what changes my grandmother, who died last December, would have seen over her lifespan of 1926 to 2023.

This video from YouTube gives an intro to the 1920s in the United States - I'm sure Canada was not too different.

She lived in a world where a simple scratch could turn deadly. 

Grandma was almost 2 years old when penicillin was first discovered, but she was a teenager before it was successfully used in the general population.  

She was a child & teen through the Great Depression & World War II. 

She was 19 when the first atomic bomb was detonated.

Flight was in it's infancy when grandma was a child, but available as a form of commuting by the time she died.

As a child I remember grandma wearing her knee high stockings. She never left the house without them. She was a teenager before they were affordable for everyday usage.

"Nylon and nylon stockings were shown to the American public at the 1939 New York World’s Fair. Women loved them!" 1 

Grandma lived in rural Manitoba, and I heard tales of how the comforts of her childhood and adult life were so different.

"In the 1940s, many Canadians lived in rural areas where most homes had no electricity, and even fewer had indoor plumbing." 2

A retired telephone operator Grandma had moved plugs on the switchboard to connect callers. At her bedside when she died every family member had a pocket sized computer that made calls. 

Photography wasn't common place, and yet Grandma and her family left behind photos for us to get a glimpse into her childhood.








And this last photo of the family (not too long before her brother died - grandma and her brother sitting graveside with their parents





Everything changes over time!!! 

 

 

This is why I search - 

 

Cause ... 

 

 

 

 

You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

 

 

 

 



***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***

 

 

Footnotes:

1  The History of Ordinary Things: Ladies’ Stockings over Time. Written by Doris Montag. 50 Plus Life. Retrieved March 16th 2024 from
https://50pluslifepa.com/lifestyle/history/2483-the-history-of-ordinary-things-ladies-stockings-over-time

2  Canadian War Brides. History. Veterans Affairs. Government of Canada. 
Retrieved March 16th 2024 from
https://www.veterans.gc.ca/eng/remembrance/history/second-world-war/canadian-war-brides

 

Sources:

The 20th and 21st centuries. Technology from 1900 to 1945. Encyclopædia Britannica, Inc. Retrieved March 16th 2024 from 
https://www.britannica.com/technology/history-of-technology/The-20th-and-21st-centuries

How do penicillins work? Medical News Today. Medically reviewed by Zara Risoldi Cochrane, Pharm.D., M.S., FASCP — By Tim Newman on July 30, 2018. Retrieved March 16th 2024 from 
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/216798


Photos:

Personal

 

Videos:

Virtual History: Life 100 Years Ago. Stark Art & History. Retrieved March 16th 2024 from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bAUpK_3rnEg

 

Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/




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Friday, March 15, 2024

X2 Great Uncle Mikita Pellack ~ An Achiever

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2024: Week 11 (ACHIEVEMENT)


In considering who to write about for this week's prompt I decided to look for names that mean ACHIEVEMENT.

I discovered the name Mykyta means 

"A man who has the capability of winning in every field; A winner" 1

My X2 great Uncle Mikita Pellack came to Canada in 1907 with his wife, 2 daughters, and his mother (Mary). My great grandparents followed them in 1909 with their 3 oldest children. My grandfather was the first child born on the homestead in Canada.

I am Canadian because X2 great Uncle Mikita created a successful life in Canada for himself that encouraged my great grandfather to follow. 

Their achievements (and all of mine) are because of Mikita's willingness to leave all he knew behind in Ukraine for a better life in Canada. 

The local history book Our Courageous Pioneers provides a look at his life.




I am proud to claim this X2 great Uncle who was an achiever in all things he touched. 

It took me 20 years to prove that my grandfather Clyde Robertson really was Max Pellack. 

It was this mystery that began my search for where I fit into my own family story. 

That proof came when my father and I DNA matched to the great grandson of my X2 great Uncle Mikita.

This confirmation has been my greatest achievement in genealogy researching to date.

In looking at the life X2 great Uncle Mikita created in Canada there is no doubt he fit the meaning of his name perfectly. 



When the name fits!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***



Footnotes:

1  Mykyta Name Meaning. Baby Names. Mom Junction. Retrieved March 15th 2023 from https://www.momjunction.com/baby-names/mykyta/


Sources:

Mykyta Name Meaning. Baby Names. Mom Junction. Retrieved March 15th 2023 from https://www.momjunction.com/baby-names/mykyta/

Our Courageous Pioneers : History of Gronlid and Surrounding Districts of Argus, Athol, Edenbridge, Freedom, Maryville, Murphy Creek, Sandhill Creek, Taelman, Taras, Teddington,." (Melfort Saskatchewan: Phillips Publishers , 1991)


Photos:

Personal


Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



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