This is my space to share my quest to collect as many broken branches as I can in my fractured family tree which resembles a bramble bush more then a proper tree. As I go forward in this blogging journey I hope to share how I have searched far & wide for family - with no regard for where they come from or if I should really want them.
You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

Showing posts with label week 48. Show all posts
Showing posts with label week 48. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 26, 2025

Irish Cream ~ Mom's Recipe

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2025: Week 48 (FAMILY RECIPE)


Every year we would join my mom's extended family camping in the Kootenays at Garland Bay.


Every year there would be a fishing derby.

Here is Chris with his winning fish from one of those years.



Every year for this camping trip I would follow my mother's Irish Cream recipe bringing along a batch or two.

The mornings began with Irish Cream & Coffee, and ended with a dram around the fire. 

Mom's Irish Cream Recipe

made with her homemade


I loved mom's Irish Cream, and the memories that go with it.

To be honest I think about her whenever I have Irish Cream even though it's been many years since I have made a batch.




Fondly remembering family recipes of the past!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***




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Personal

Recipe Clips


Links:

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https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



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Wednesday, November 27, 2024

Isaac ~ He Will Laugh

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2024: Week 48 (VERY FUNNY)


In thinking about the prompt this week I wondered if we have any names in the Bramble Bush that actually mean VERY FUNNY.

I began looking on Chris' side because he really is funny.....

I found:

The name Isaac is primarily a male name of Hebrew origin
that means He Will Laugh
. 
1

Chris' 3rd great grandfather on his maternal line is:
Isaac Smith
Birth 20 DEC 1788 • Grimsby, Lincoln, Ontario, Canada
Death 22 MAR 1869 • Oakland, Brant, Ontario, Canada

married to
3rd great grandmother
Abigail McQueen
Birth 12 MAY 1792 • Port Dover, Norfolk, Ontario, Canada
Death 16 MAY 1862 • Brantford, Brant, Ontario, Canada

In the 1861 Census we find Isaac & Abigail with 2 of their sons living in Oakland, Brant, Canada West. The family's religion was recorded as Wesleyan Methodist. 

His 4th great grandfather on his paternal line:
Isaac Williams
Birth 19 MAY 1802 • New York, USA
Death 19 MAR 1868 • Bayham, Elgin, Ontario, Canada
married to 
4th great grandmother
Mary Claus
Birth 1806 • Bayham, Elgin, Ontario, Canada
Death 19 MAY 1879 • Bayham, Elgin, Ontario, Canada

In the 1861 Census we find Isaac & Abigail with 5 of their children living in Bayham, Elgin, Canada West. Their son & daughter in law were visiting from Warwick, Ontario. The family's religion was recorded as Baptist. 

It's not surprising that Chris' X3 and X4 great grandfathers were named such a strong biblical name.

Both these family lines have long history in the church. 

When Chris and I first met I was a 3rd year anthropology student, and he came from a long line of pastor's kids. 

I knew the theory of evolution, and he knew the theory of creation. 

We had many interesting conversations that were for the most part respectful.

He also made me laugh a lot.

It was a time that I was taking myself far too seriously. 

Laughing with him (and sometimes at him) allowed me to feel joy in the world around me.

I told him I would keep him around as long as he kept me laughing.

In the more than 30 years we have been together he has kept that commitment to me. 



When your ancestors pass down some of the best parts of who you are!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***



Footnotes:

1  Isaac. BabyNames.com. Retrieved November 26th 2024 from
https://babynames.com/name/isaac


Photos:

Ancestry

Personal


Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



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Thursday, November 30, 2023

X7 Great Grandmother ~ Prudence (nee Wright) Bayes Cubitt

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2023: Week 48 (TROUBLEMAKER)

Over the years of blogging about this Bramble Bush I have shared many tales that show the various scandals in our family history.

This week I just didn't feel like digging for a scandal or finding someone who fit for troublemaker.

This week I celebrate and remember my 7th great grandmother 
Prudence Wright
BIRTH 05 NOV 1709 • Horsham St Faith, Norfolk, England.
DEATH ABT 1792 • Horsham St Faith, Norfolk, England.

At the age of 20 Prudence married 25 year old Robert Bayes
     - my 7th great grandfather: 
Robert Bayes
BIRTH 29 JAN 1704 • Horsham St Faith, Norfolk, England.
DEATH 7 MAR 1769 • Horsham St Faith, Norfolk, England.

I spend some time learning about Horsham St. Faith, Norfolk, England were my ancestors came from. I found this record while searching


Adding another area to my 'want to visit' list.

Just 3 months after Robert died Prudence married Thomas Cubitt on June 12th 1769. 

I know nothing about Thomas Cubbitt beyond being fairly confident the trees showing as hints in Ancestry are not accurate. The birth year does not  match the expected age. There is little logic that a 21 year old young man would marry a 59 year old widow. 

The marriage registry has them both as widowed.


I could spend some time searching for  X7  great step grandfather Thomas Cubitt's details, but there are more connected lines I would like to search first.

BUT searching collateral lines is ideal for finding random details that are the final one needed to break down brick walls.


Leaving collateral relatives for a future time!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***




Photos:

PD 713/38/33, Settlement certificate: Robert Bayes, his wife Prudence and their children Robert (aged about 7), Anne (aged about 4) and Mary (aged about 2) Clipped November 30th 2023 from
https://nrocatalogue.norfolk.gov.uk/index.php/settlement-certificate-robert-bayes-his-wife-prudence-and-their-children-robert-aged-about-7-anne-aged-about-4-and-mary-aged-about-2

Date(s)

12 Aug 1738 (Creation)

Norfolk, England, Church of England Marriages and Banns, 1754-1938 for Prudence Bayes Clipped November 30th 2023 from Ancestry.



Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



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Thursday, December 1, 2022

DNA Sources Overlooked ~ No Stone Unturned

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2022: Week 48 (OVERLOOKED)


7 years ago I received my first genealogical DNA result. That first test was from Ancestry. Nothing new was added to what I already knew. 

I uploaded it to GedMatch, and nothing new was added to the area I thought I was searching. A new mystery presented. 

MyHeritage had a promo several years ago. I uploaded my results there. More matches, but nothing new. 

This last summer I did 23&Me. The information provided was interesting, but no real new information was added.

This week Family Tree DNA advertising was all over my social media about uploading for free. I uploaded my DNA from 23&Me with the hopes of finally breaking through my father's paternal brick wall.  Nope - nada. 

Now I wonder -- are there any DNA sites I have overlooked that might finally break that wall down?

I am looking for more information on my paternal grandparents:

Alexander (Alex) Pellack
Born: 17 Apr 1873 Skoryky, Скорики, Ternopil's'ka Oblast, Ukraine
Died: 22 Oct 1955 Gronlid, Saskatchewan, Canada
and
Marya (Maria) (Mary) (Marinka) Maximiw
Born: 24 Dec 1875 Ukraine/Galicia/Austria - Unknown
Died: 12 Aug 1946 Gronlid, Saskatchewan, Canada

I have basic information about them. 

=

DNA confirmed my grandfather really was their son. 

DNA is the key to finding out more. 

 


Still searching !!!




This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***



Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



If you reference or use my blog posts in any way please
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Friday, December 3, 2021

Ford Strong ~ When the Two Families Merge

While researching last week's blog I discovered who I wanted to write about for this week's prompt STRENGTH.

John Strong & Abigail Ford had 14 children. John had 2 children with his first wife Marjory Deane. Of those 16 children  15 lived into adulthood.

This was rare for the time when so many children died. 

John & Abigail's oldest child was Jedediah. 
Jedediah Strong
BIRTH 7 MAY 1637 • Hingham, Plymouth, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 22 MAY 1733 • Coventry, Tolland County, Connecticut, USA

On November 18th 1662 Jedediah married Freedom.
Freedom Woodward
BIRTH 1 JUL 1642 • Dorchester Suffolk County Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 17 MAY 1681 • Northampton.  Massachusetts, USA

Jedediah & Freedom had 13 children, 8 lived through to adulthood. Losing 5 children was typical of the time. It can't have been easy. 

Their first child, Elizabeth, lived till age 26.
At age 20 she married Ebenezer Wright. 
Elizabeth Strong
BIRTH 9 JUN 1664 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 17 FEB 1691 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA

Their second child, Abigail, lived till age 23.
At age 17 she married Thomas King.
Abigail Strong
BIRTH 9 JUL 1666 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 24 JUL 1689 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA

Their third child, Jedediah, lived till age 42.
At age 21 he married Abijah Ingersoll. 
Jedediah Strong
BIRTH 7 AUG 1667 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 12 OCT 1709 • Wood Creek, New York, USA

Their fourth child, Ford, lived only 2 month.
Ford Strong
BIRTH 2 SEP 1668 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 1 NOV 1668 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA

Their fifth child was born still, or died soon after birth 
Infant Strong 
BIRTH 11 OCT 1669 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 1669 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA

Their sixth child, Hannah, lived till age 92.
At age 21 she married Benjamin Carpenter.
H
annah Strong
BIRTH 3 FEB 1670 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 20 MAR 1762 • Coventry, Connecticut, USA

Their seventh child, Thankful, lived till age 70.
I wrote about her in last week's blog.
At age 18 she married the Deacon Thomas Root.
Thankful Strong 
BIRTH 15 APR 1672 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 16 APR 1742 • Coventry, Connecticut, USA

Their eight child, John, was born still or died soon after birth.
John Strong
BIRTH 15 NOV 1673
DEATH NOV 1673 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA

Their ninth child, Lydia, lived till age 42.
At age 19 she married David Lee (Brother to Preserved's wife Tabitha)
Lydia Strong
BIRTH 9 NOV 1675 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 16 JUL 1718 • Coventry, Connecticut, USA

Their tenth child, Mary, was born still or died soon after birth.
Mary Strong
BIRTH 25 MAY 1677 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH MAY 1677 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA

Their eleventh child, Experience, lived 29 days.
Experience Strong
BIRTH 19 AUG 1678 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 16 SEP 1678 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA

Their twelfth child, Preserved. lived till age 85.
At age 21 he married Tabitha Lee (sister to sister Lydia's husband David Lee).
P
reserved Strong
BIRTH 29 MAR 1680 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 26 SEP 1765 • Coventry, Connecticut, USA

Their thirteenth child, John, lived till age 17.
John Strong
BIRTH 10 MAY 1681 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 21 APR 1699 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA

Freedom died one week after giving birth to her 13th child John. 

Jedediah outlived 10 of his 14 children.

After Freedom's death Jedediah married Abigail Bartlett in 1681. She was the widow of John Stebbins. They had one child, Mary, born in 1683. Abigail died in 1689. 

For his 3rd wife Jedediah married Mary Hart. She was the widow of John Lee, and mother-in-law to two of Jedediah's children: Lydia & Preserved.




I think I noticed Jedediah & Freedom while I was researching last week because of the name of their son Ford Strong. My connection to this family is through Ford's grandmother Abigail Ford. She was the sister of my 9th great grandmother Hepzibah Ford.  Ford is my 2nd cousin X9 removed. Once I started looking at the details of the family I decided this couple fit for strength in so many ways.

The name STRONG.

The losses the experienced, and yet they endured. 

I also thought about the Ford company slogan BUILT FORD TOUGH, and wondered if this family is connected to the Ford motor company.  

This is definitely a tale for another time.


I have included The History of the Descendants of Elder John Strong, of Northampton, Mass. written by Benjamin W. Dwight in my sources below.

There is a lot of information about the Strong family & all of the other interconnected families like FORD and LYMAN & more.
It's the full pdf available for downloading. 


Knowing there will always be a new thread to tug in researching family!





This is why I search - 


Cause ... 






You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!









***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***


Sources:

Dwight, Benjamin W. The History of the Descendants of Elder John Strong, of Northampton, Mass. Bibliolife DBA of Bibilio Bazaar II LLC, 2015. Retrieved December 3rd 2021 from
https://ia600206.us.archive.org/16/items/cu31924092508682/cu31924092508682.pdf

Freedom Woodward, FindAGrave. Retrieved December 3rd 2021 from 
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/36163848/freedom-strong

Jebediah Strong, FindAGrave. Retrieved December 3rd 2021 from 
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/36163752/jedediah-strong


Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/


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Friday, November 29, 2019

To Steal Ideas From One Person Is Pagiarism; To Steal From Many Is Research


52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks: Week 48 (THIEF)

Genealogy research is everywhere now. All you need is a computer, a few details, a little curiosity, lots of time, and a bundle of cash is helpful.

There are many places online to post your tree, and research. A simple search will find a multitude of family trees just waiting to be harvested.

There are two problems with this.

The first is that there is no way for anyone to know for sure the tree found online is accurate.

The second is whether it's ethical to just take someone else's work and make it your own.  
Is it really any different than finding an obituary, and using the details to add to your tree?  How about the information pulled from social media sites where folks have lax privacy settings?

Recently I stumbled upon the quote:

To steal ideas from one person is plagiarism; to steal from many is research.


It got me thinking about what genealogical plagiarism really is. 


BUT first the quote itself seems to have been plagiarized since 
a variety of similar ways it's attributed to several people:

"When you take stuff from one writer it's plagiarism; but when you take it from many writers, it's research."   ~Wilson Mizner 1938.

"To steal ideas from one person is plagiarism - to steal from many is research."    ~Steven Wright.

"If you steal from one person it’s plagiarism: if you steal from three persons it’s research.”   ~Joseph Cummings Chase 1938.

“If you wrote a paper and quoted without credit from a single book, it would be plagiarism; but if you quoted from three or four, it would be research.”       ~Word Study, a periodical from G. & C. Merriam Company which is best known for publishing the Merriam-Webster dictionaries. Dec 1938.

“Just remember,” says he, “if you steal from one man, it’s plagiarism. If you steal from several, it’s research.”   ~Bob Oliver 1941.

 if you steal from two sources, you are providing documentation; and if you steal from three or more sources, it is–presto–”original research.”    ~Los Angeles Times 1974.

"If you steal from one author, it's plagiarism. If you steal from two, it's research."     ~John McDonald Burke,   Bogue's Progress: The Fabulous Adventures of Wilson Mizner chapter 9, p. 167 (1975).


"Wilson Mizner? Steven Wright? Wallace Notestein? Ralph Foss? Joseph Cummings Chase? Asa George Baker? Leslie Henson? Tom Lehrer? Bob Oliver? Anonymous?
....In conclusion, based on the 1929 citation Wallace Notestein is the leading candidate for authorship of this quip. "1 



It appears as though the original quote was:
“If you copy from one book, that's plagiarism; if you copy from many books, that's research.” - Wallace Notestein, 1929

The surge in Genealogy websites, and sources seems to have resulted from the ease that average folks can research. With a fee for accessing original source documents anyone with some spare money can track back on their family lines many many generations. Anyone with access to those trees can add details without paying their own fee.


Recently I was loo
king at THRULINES on Ancestry. It showed that I was able to confirm a few more generations back via a couple of new member matches. When I went to check their trees I discovered that the only source they had in their tree was my tree. I knew it was my tree because they had a DNA symbol for their person's profile photo. 



That DNA symbol was an original one I created to track a particular line on my tree. I can't really use the two new matches as a source since their source was me. 


Do I feel plagiarized?  



Not at all. 


I put my research out there to share. I would hope anyone who is connected to me would use what I have posted since I plan to glean from them what they know too. 




You can't steal shared family history!







This is why I search - 



Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!
















***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***





Footnotes:

1 If You Steal From One Author, It’s Plagiarism; If You Steal From Many, It’s Research, Quote Investigator, Retrieved November 29th 2019 from 
https://quoteinvestigator.com/2010/09/20/plagiarism/



Sources:

If You Steal From One Author, It’s Plagiarism; If You Steal From Many, It’s Research, Quote Investigator, Retrieved November 29th 2019 from
https://quoteinvestigator.com/2010/09/20/plagiarism/


Research and plagiarism. What is the difference? CosmosQuest Forum, Retrieved November 29th  2019 from
https://forum.cosmoquest.org/archive/index.php/t-137117.html






Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/




If you reference or use my blog posts in any way please
include a link to the specific blog and
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My blogs are ©Deborah Buchner, 2014 forward.
All rights reserved.
Please & Thank you!


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