2022 - A Return to the Old Normal

Future

What shall I write about for this week's prompt FUTURE? 

Understanding the past is the key to the future.

I have always tried to live in the moment. 

As the last moments of 2021 are upon us I honestly can't wait to forget about this year. 

In looking back I'm shocked to realize 2021 is over. 

This has been a hard year for most folks. 

It was the 2nd year of the Covid19 pandemic. 

So much of what was happening personally & throughout the world was overshadowed by the worldwide pandemic.

As 2021 comes to a close I look forward to 2022 with the hopes that we can go back to the old normal. 

When the pandemic first started, and we talked about the new normal there was lots of talk about what parts of the old normal we could let go of. I now no longer remember which parts I said I no longer wanted. I look forward to a return to the old normal. 

There is so little that I remember from this past year. 

There was so little to mark the passage of time.

One good thing that happened this year?

My dad gave us his Harley Davidson. He bought it new in 1986, and babied it. When he decided he was no longer riding it enough to keep it he gifted it to me. It is such a beautiful bike. It's in such good condition it qualified for Collector Plates. Maybe in 2022 we will attend a Show & Shine?  

1986 Harley Davidson, September 2021

Looking forward to a return to the the old normal.

From our house to yours  -  HAPPY NEW YEAR, 2022!!!

This is why I search - 

Cause ... 

You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***

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A Griswold Family Christmas ~ Our Bramble Bush

I suspect there is not one person who knows us that would be surprised to hear we have Griswolds in our Bramble Bush. 

When we decorate for Christmas our style can only be described as a 'Griswold Family Christmas'. 

The first time I saw National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation I recognized the style as mine. 

We even decorate the bathroom. 

I don't know anyone else who has a talking outhouse in their bathroom that has the voice of Santa saying things like "What does a guy have to do to get a bit of TP around here", or "Soon I will have to use my good list", and then a long farting noise followed by a Santa chuckle with some ho ho ho's thrown in. 

The shower curtain, towels, and toothbrushes round out the boldly decorated bathroom. 

The first Griswold I found was the wife of my husband's X2 great uncle

William Henry Lee
BIRTH JUN 1864 • Burford, Ontario, Canada
DEATH 23 MAY 1927 • Oxford, Ontario, Canada

who married, November 7th 1888:
Frances Griswold
BIRTH 7 MAR 1874 • Norwich, Ontario, Canada
DEATH 1963 • Burgessville, Canada

Frances was the daughter of 
Barbara Ellen Recknor
BIRTH 4 DEC 1844 • Otterstadt, Pfalz, Bayern, Germany
DEATH 1919 • Norwich Twp., Oxford, Ontario, Canada
and
John Lyman Griswold
BIRTH 16 NOV 1843 • N Norwich Oxford Co, Ontario, Canada
DEATH 24 MAY 1914 • Norwich Twp, Oxford, Ontario, Canada

Now isn't that interesting --- 
Lyman is in my mother's maternal family line.
Looking more closely at the parents and grandparents of John Lyman Griswold I find Quaker records. My Lyman line is Quaker. 
There is little doubt that my husband and I are both connected to the Griswold family line.
This is not surprising. 
BUT it will be a research project for another time!

The tackier our Christmas presents the happier we are.

One year I mailed this card to my mom for Christmas!

Even the folks who send us presents know this about us

Received Xmas 2021

When you aren't surprised to discover that It's in your DNA OR your family married into it!

This is why I search - 

Cause ... 

You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***

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Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
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Complicated Nellie Line ~ When the Expected Line Goes a Different Direction

Lines -- building family trees is all about researching lines of your family.

Each person has direct lines that double at each intersection: 2 parents, 4 grandparents, 8 great grandparents, 16 great grandparents, 32 great great grandparents.

BUT ... wait

I have 33 great great grandparents that I am researching. 

Lets go back to the beginning --- 

I originally decided to have my Ancestry DNA done to break down brick walls on my paternal family line that was full of secrets. 

After uploading to GedMatch I discovered there looked to be a bigger secret on my maternal side. 

It appears as though my great grandmother, Nellie May Cannon, was not the child of Jack/John Rodger Cannon as expected. It further appears as though Nellie and her two sisters had the same mother but not father. 

The DNA matches appear to suggest Nellie may be the daughter of a coworker of Jack's - John Lamb. They were both Railway Engineers for Canadian Pacific Railway. They both immigrated to Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada from the United States about the same time (1902). Their wives followed about a year later (1903). 

Finding them in the 1906 census we know they lived on the same street in Winnipeg:
Jack & Edith Cannon at 794 Flora Avenue,
and
John & Laura Lamb at 814 Flora Avenue.

1906 Census entries
#621 Jack (32), Edith (25), daughter Nellie (1) Cannon 
#701 Jack (35), Laura (32), adopted daughter Elizabeth Nelson (7) daughter Margaret (5) Lamb

15 year later both families are still living fairly close to each other as we find them in the 1921 census no longer renting on Flora Avenue. 

Both families own their own homes.

Jack (45), Edith (34), daughters Nellie (16) & Kathleen (14) Cannon at 856 Bannatyne Avenue, Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada.
and
Jack (51), Laura (49), adopted daughter Elizabeth Nelson (33) daughter Margaret (19), son John (1) Lamb at 670 McDermot Avenue, Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada

Both Cannon & Lamb are still listed as Engineers for the railroad in the 1921 census.

When I was first contacted by Lamb descendants I was told that John Lamb and his wife Laura were unable to have children, and adopted - which limits the ability to match more directly.  The census records seem to indicate the older daughter was adopted, but the younger daughter and son were not. Follow up records suggest all three were adopted. All of my DNA connections are not direct descendants of John & Laura. If the 3 were adopted this makes sense. If the 2 younger were not adopted then my hypothesis falls apart even with the matches to other relatives. Unless  their descendants haven't done genealogical DNA which means it could happen in the future. 

When examining the DNA matches I have in common with known descendants of John Lamb's grandparents  the amount of shared DNA matches.

If the hypothesis is correct my 4th great grandparents are
John Robert Lamb
BIRTH 10 JUL 1804 • Crudie Acres, Parish Arbirlot, Forfarshire, Scotland
DEATH 12 JAN 1860 • Crudie Acres, Parish Arbirlot, Forfarshire, Scotland
and 
Elizabeth Deuchar
BIRTH 25 SEP 1818 • Pitteris, Parish of Craig, Forfarshire, Scotland
DEATH 26 JAN 1889 • Baker, Clay, Minnesota, USA

I had started a guessing tree right after contact was made about our possible connection to the Lamb/Deuchar line instead of the Cannon line. At the time I added both my aunt's DNA & mine to the tree seeking matches.

It wasn't long before it became pretty clear why there was almost no Irish in our DNA results. John Rodger (known as Jack) Cannon whose parents were born in Ireland was not my X2 great grandfather.  

My next thought was that maybe the unknown history of X2 great grandma Edith May Lake might be related to the Lamb/Deuchar family. This would allow for the child (my great grandmother) Nellie to not have been the result of infidelity. This hypothesis did not prove our when it became clear that Nellie and her two sisters shared the same mother, but only Nellie's descendants matched the Lamb/Deuchar descendants. 

I began adding notes to all the DNA matches through Nellie's paternal line. I called the group 'Nellie's Complicated Line'. Once the matches were all sorted & examined it was pretty clear that Nellie's father was John Lamb. At that point I added him to my main tree on Ancestry as Nellie's biological father. 

While writing this week's blog I removed John Rodger Cannon as Nellie's father. This was very hard to do. I had been attached to Nellie being a Cannon right up until that message arrived. I continued to believe it was possible that he was Nellie's father up until the DNA evidence clearly showed he was not.  He is still listed as father to Nellie's two sisters as it appears as though he was likely their father. He is also listed as the father to brother John Patrick Cannon who died at 2 1/2 months of age in 1911. 

Embracing what is instead of what was.

The in common DNA matches all support the hypothesis of John Lamb being Nellie's father. There is a part of me that feels it's wrong to add the Lamb/Deuchar line to my tree without some sort of factual proof or permission of the descendants. At the same time the DNA matches have resulted in my arriving at a place of reasonably exhaustive search. It seems the right time to take ownership of the family line the DNA follows. 

When the DNA evidence points your family history in a different direction there is little choice, but to follow the new line!

This is why I search - 

Cause ... 

You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***

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Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
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Homemade Treats ~ Mom Made the Best

Mom died in March 2015. I miss mom all the time.  At Christmas the loss is felt somehow deeper. 

This week's prompt is homemade.  

Mom was an amazing cook & baker. I have so many memories wrapped up in food. 

Mom always mailed boxes of homemade special treats to our house & the houses of my siblings, at Christmas. 

Every year mom complained about how expensive postage was, and how heavy baking was. She never missed sending our childhood favourites every Christmas. 

My favourite was shortbread cookies.

One year while visiting at Christmas mom noticed that I picked the candied fruit off, and tossed it in the garbage. 

She said that next year she would leave the candied fruit off. 

I look at her horrified. 

Picking the fruit off for the trash was part of my shortbread experience. The little red & green stain left behind on the cookie I was eating enhanced the cookie experience. 

The following years the cookies arrived with the candied fruit exactly as they always had been. 

I suspect mom muttered while she spent money and time attaching candied fruit she knew I would not eat. 

She didn't want to disappoint me at Christmas.

Every Christmas that I don't receive my special delivery of shortbread cookies I am sad. 

Last year (Christmas 2020) my husband made me shortbread. 

He made me the whipped type after I explained that the traditional type would make me sadder since that is the type mom sent. 

Xmas 2015 was our first Christmas without Mom. 

In the years since missing mom at Christmas has not gotten easier.

Every treat I have OR don't have reminds me of mom.

The letter my mom's sister sent (December 2015) that first Christmas  without mom left me laughing and crying.

Mom and her sister

Every Christmas I re-read this letter. 

It helps with missing my mom.

The letter below has been redacted for privacy - only my name remains visible. The original included the names of my siblings. 

In Auntie Bobbi's special way she helped bring mom into that first Christmas without her. 

This letter made me laugh and cry at the same time. Auntie Bobbi had a way with words - she told a story well. 

Auntie Bobbi died this past summer.

This is our first Christmas without her. 

Re-reading this letter from Christmas 2015 helps me hold them both close.

We miss them both

It doesn't get any easier.

Missing family at Christmas time!

This is why I search - 

Cause ... 

You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***

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Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
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Ford Strong ~ When the Two Families Merge

While researching last week's blog I discovered who I wanted to write about for this week's prompt STRENGTH.

John Strong & Abigail Ford had 14 children. John had 2 children with his first wife Marjory Deane. Of those 16 children  15 lived into adulthood.

This was rare for the time when so many children died. 

John & Abigail's oldest child was Jedediah. 
Jedediah Strong
BIRTH 7 MAY 1637 • Hingham, Plymouth, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 22 MAY 1733 • Coventry, Tolland County, Connecticut, USA

On November 18th 1662 Jedediah married Freedom.
Freedom Woodward
BIRTH 1 JUL 1642 • Dorchester Suffolk County Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 17 MAY 1681 • Northampton.  Massachusetts, USA

Jedediah & Freedom had 13 children, 8 lived through to adulthood. Losing 5 children was typical of the time. It can't have been easy. 

Their first child, Elizabeth, lived till age 26.
At age 20 she married Ebenezer Wright. 
Elizabeth Strong
BIRTH 9 JUN 1664 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 17 FEB 1691 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA

Their second child, Abigail, lived till age 23.
At age 17 she married Thomas King.
Abigail Strong
BIRTH 9 JUL 1666 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 24 JUL 1689 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA

Their third child, Jedediah, lived till age 42.
At age 21 he married Abijah Ingersoll. 
Jedediah Strong
BIRTH 7 AUG 1667 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 12 OCT 1709 • Wood Creek, New York, USA

Their fourth child, Ford, lived only 2 month.
Ford Strong
BIRTH 2 SEP 1668 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 1 NOV 1668 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA

Their fifth child was born still, or died soon after birth 
Infant Strong 
BIRTH 11 OCT 1669 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 1669 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA

Their sixth child, Hannah, lived till age 92.
At age 21 she married Benjamin Carpenter.
Hannah Strong
BIRTH 3 FEB 1670 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 20 MAR 1762 • Coventry, Connecticut, USA

Their seventh child, Thankful, lived till age 70.
I wrote about her in last week's blog.
At age 18 she married the Deacon Thomas Root.
Thankful Strong 
BIRTH 15 APR 1672 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 16 APR 1742 • Coventry, Connecticut, USA

Their eight child, John, was born still or died soon after birth.
John Strong
BIRTH 15 NOV 1673
DEATH NOV 1673 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA

Their ninth child, Lydia, lived till age 42.
At age 19 she married David Lee (Brother to Preserved's wife Tabitha)
Lydia Strong
BIRTH 9 NOV 1675 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 16 JUL 1718 • Coventry, Connecticut, USA

Their tenth child, Mary, was born still or died soon after birth.
Mary Strong
BIRTH 25 MAY 1677 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH MAY 1677 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA

Their eleventh child, Experience, lived 29 days.
Experience Strong
BIRTH 19 AUG 1678 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 16 SEP 1678 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA

Their twelfth child, Preserved. lived till age 85.
At age 21 he married Tabitha Lee (sister to sister Lydia's husband David Lee).
Preserved Strong
BIRTH 29 MAR 1680 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 26 SEP 1765 • Coventry, Connecticut, USA

Their thirteenth child, John, lived till age 17.
John Strong
BIRTH 10 MAY 1681 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 21 APR 1699 • Northampton, Massachusetts, USA

Freedom died one week after giving birth to her 13th child John. 

Jedediah outlived 10 of his 14 children.

After Freedom's death Jedediah married Abigail Bartlett in 1681. She was the widow of John Stebbins. They had one child, Mary, born in 1683. Abigail died in 1689. 

For his 3rd wife Jedediah married Mary Hart. She was the widow of John Lee, and mother-in-law to two of Jedediah's children: Lydia & Preserved.

I think I noticed Jedediah & Freedom while I was researching last week because of the name of their son Ford Strong. My connection to this family is through Ford's grandmother Abigail Ford. She was the sister of my 9th great grandmother Hepzibah Ford.  Ford is my 2nd cousin X9 removed. Once I started looking at the details of the family I decided this couple fit for strength in so many ways.

The name STRONG.

The losses the experienced, and yet they endured. 

I also thought about the Ford company slogan BUILT FORD TOUGH, and wondered if this family is connected to the Ford motor company.  

This is definitely a tale for another time.

I have included The History of the Descendants of Elder John Strong, of Northampton, Mass. written by Benjamin W. Dwight in my sources below.

There is a lot of information about the Strong family & all of the other interconnected families like FORD and LYMAN & more.
It's the full pdf available for downloading. 

Knowing there will always be a new thread to tug in researching family!

This is why I search - 

Cause ... 

You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***

Sources:

Dwight, Benjamin W. The History of the Descendants of Elder John Strong, of Northampton, Mass. Bibliolife DBA of Bibilio Bazaar II LLC, 2015. Retrieved December 3rd 2021 from
https://ia600206.us.archive.org/16/items/cu31924092508682/cu31924092508682.pdf

Freedom Woodward, FindAGrave. Retrieved December 3rd 2021 from 
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/36163848/freedom-strong

Jebediah Strong, FindAGrave. Retrieved December 3rd 2021 from 
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/36163752/jedediah-strong

Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
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Overflowing With Thanks ~ 8 Thankfuls In One Part Of The Tree

THANKFUL is this week's prompt.

I immediately thought about having seen a person whose name was Thankful in our Bramble Bush. 

When I went searching I discovered we have 8 Thankfuls in our Bramble Bush. 

Noticing that all of them were female I started wondering about the origin of the name. 

"The name Thankful is a girl's name of English origin.

In the Plymouth Colony of the seventeenth century, Thankful was the third most popular of the abstract word names. It disappeared after 1700 and has virtually no chance of returning."1 

It was the moment I read this that I realized my ancestors were part of the origins of Thanksgiving. 

This week was American Thanksgiving. We are Canadian. Our Thanksgiving was a month ago.

BUT the origins of Thanksgiving are connected.

As a child I loved hearing about Plymouth and the origins of Thanksgiving. I would have loved to have known I had ancestors there. 

In the years since I have viewed the story through a different lens. 

If you want to learn more about the origins of Thanksgiving click the History.com article sourced below. 

Back to the Thankfuls in our tree. 

None are our direct ancestors or super close, but they are ours to claim through my mother's maternal line.

My 1st cousin 10x removed 
Thankful Strong
BIRTH 25 JUL 1663 • Northampton, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 5 MAR 1726
her parents were
John Strong
BIRTH 1610 • Taunton, Taunton Deane Borough, Somerset, England
DEATH 14 APR 1699 • Northampton, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, USA
and
Abigail Ford - my 9th great grandaunt
BIRTH 8 OCT 1619 • Bridport, Dorset, England
DEATH 6 JUL 1688 • Northampton, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, USA

My 2nd cousin 9x removed (and niece to Thankful above)
Thankful Strong
BIRTH 15 APR 1672 • Northampton, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, United States of America
DEATH 16 APR 1742 • Coventry, Tolland County, Connecticut, United States of America
Her parents were
Jedediah Strong - my 2nd cousin 9x removed
BIRTH 7 MAY 1637 • Hingham, Plymouth, Massachusetts, United States
DEATH 22 MAY 1733 • Coventry, Tolland County, Connecticut, USA
and
Freedom Woodward
BIRTH JUL 1641 • Dorchester Suffolk County Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 17 MAY 1681 • Northampton Hampshire County Massachusetts, USA

My 1st cousin 10x removed 
Benjamin Lyman
BIRTH 10 AUG 1674 • Northampton, Hampshire, Massachusetts
DEATH 14 OCT 1723 • Northhampton, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, USA
his wife
Thankful Pomeroy
BIRTH 31 MAY 1679 • Northampton, Hampshire, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 18 SEP 1773 • Northampton, Hampshire, Massachusetts, USA
Her parents were
Medad Pomeroy
BIRTH 19 AUG 1638 • Windsor Hartford County Connecticut, USA
DEATH 30 DEC 1716 • Northampton Hampshire County Massachusetts, USA
and
Experience Woodward
BIRTH 10 NOV 1643 • Dorchester Suffolk County Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 6 JUN 1686 • Northampton Hampshire County Massachusetts, USA
Benjamin's parents were
John Lyman (my 9th great granduncle)
BIRTH 16 SEP 1623 • High Ongar, Essex, England
DEATH 20 AUG 1690 • Northampton, Hampshire, Massachusetts, USA
and 
Dorcas Plumb
BIRTH 12 JAN 1635 • Weathersfield, Hartford, Connecticut, United States
DEATH 20 APR 1725 • Northampton, Hampshire, Massachusetts

My 3rd cousin 7x removed 
Aaron Dewey
BIRTH 25 AUG 1734 • Lebanon, New London County, Connecticut, USA
DEATH 4 FEB 1805 • Mount Tabor, Rutland County, Vermont, USA
his mother in law
Thankful Babcock
BIRTH 1686 • Hadley, Hampshire, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 20 JAN 1736 • Coventry, Tolland, Connecticut, USA
her parents were
Jonathan Babcock
BIRTH 07 MAR 1652 • Dorchester, Suffolk, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 05 JAN 1732 • Coventry, Tolland, Connecticut, USA
and
Mary Curtis
BIRTH 09 JAN 1655 • Scituate, Plymouth, Massachusetts, United States
DEATH 28 MAR 1710 • Windham, Windham, Connecticut, United States
Aaron's wife (and Thankful's daughter)
Maria Porter
BIRTH 18 JUN 1731 • Coventry, Tolland, Connecticut, USA
DEATH 1778
Maria's father (and Thankful's husband)
Thomas Stanley Porter
BIRTH 1 APR 1683 • Hadley, Hampshire, MA
DEATH 7 AUG 1752 • Coventry, Tolland County, Connecticut, USA
Aaron's parents were
Jonathan Dewey - 2nd cousin 8x removed
BIRTH 6 MAR 1710 • Lebanon, Conn
DEATH 23 DEC 1759 • Lebanon, Conn
and 
Mary Collier
BIRTH 1714
DEATH 19 DEC 1800 • Pomfret, Windham, Connecticut, USA

My 3rd cousin 8x removed (and daughter of Thankful above)
Thankful Root
BIRTH 4 AUG 1700 • Northampton, Hampshire, Massachusetts, United States
DEATH 16 APR 1750 • Torrington, Litchfield, Connecticut, United States
Her parents were
Thankful Strong - 2nd cousin 9x removed
BIRTH 15 APR 1672 • Northampton, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, United States of America
DEATH 16 APR 1742 • Coventry, Tolland County, Connecticut, USA
and
Deacon Thomas Root
BIRTH 11 APR 1667 • Northampton, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 13 NOV 1758 • Coventry, Tolland County, Connecticut, USA

My 2nd cousin 8x removed 
Thankful Marsh
BIRTH 15 MAR 1728 • Sunderland, Franklin, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 19 FEB 1817 • Montague, Franklin, Massachusetts
Her parents were
Ebenezer Marsh - 1st cousin 9x removed
BIRTH 1 MAY 1687 • Hatfield, Hampshire, Massachusetts
DEATH 9 SEP 1747 • Montague, Hampshire, MA
and
Elizabeth Gillette
BIRTH 1 MAY 1689 • Hartford, Hartford, Connecticut, United States
DEATH 8 MAR 1753 • Sunderland, Franklin, Massachusetts, United State

My 3rd cousin 7x removed (and daughter to Thankful above)
Thankful Gunn
BIRTH 17 AUG 1754 • Montague, Hampshire, Massachusetts, United States
DEATH 10 JUL 1808 • ,, Massachusetts, United States
her parents were
Thankful Marsh - 2nd cousin 8x removed
BIRTH 15 MAR 1728 • Sunderland, Franklin, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 19 FEB 1817 • Montague, Franklin, Massachusetts
and
Asahel Gunn
BIRTH 16 NOV 1730 • Montague, Franklin, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 11 JULY 1796 • Montague, Franklin County, Massachusetts, United States

My 3rd cousin 6x removed 
Thankful Skinner
BIRTH 1785
DEATH Unknown
her parents were
Jonathan Skinner
BIRTH ABT 1748 • Hartford, Hartford, Connecticut, USA
DEATH ABT 1808 • Pompey, Onondaga, New York
and
Jerusha Merrill - 2nd cousin 7x removed
BIRTH 24 AUG 1760 • West Hartford, Hartford Co, CT
DEATH Unknown

As you can see my family line took the name Thankful into the 1700s in defiance of the quote above. So far I haven't found any record of it in the 1800s, but I haven't been looking!

Organizing the Thankfuls into this week's blog in a way that seemed to make sense was challenging. 

I hope I have managed to include it in a way that makes some sort of sense to someone besides me.

Trying to keep track of all the Thankfuls!

This is why I search - 

Cause ... 

You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***

Footnotes:

1 Thankful Origin and Meaning, Baby Name, Retrieved November 26th 2021 from https://nameberry.com/babyname/Thankful

Sources:

History of Thanksgiving, Thanksgiving 2021, History.com. Retrieved November 26th 2021 from 
https://www.history.com/topics/thanksgiving/history-of-thanksgiving

Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/

If you reference or use my blog posts in any way please

include a link to the specific blog and

credit http://somehowrelated.blogspot.com/

My blogs are ©Deborah Buchner, 2014 forward.

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Please & Thank you!

________________________________________________________________

Making Memories ~ A Nose Piercing For My Birthday

BIRTHDAYS is this week's prompt.

My mom died in 2015. 

Every year since I think about mom on my birthday.

This year we had our oldest son and our daughter-in-law visiting from Ontario. They surprised me arriving the day before my birthday. I was completely shocked when I turned around at the local Starbucks to discover the two of them standing there when I thought they were on the other side of Canada. I was so confused my son had to take his mask down and say "Happy Birthday Mom" for me to understand they were actually standing in front of me. 

On the morning of my birthday the 4 of us were sitting at the table drinking our warm beverage of choice when my daughter-in-law asked if I had ever considered getting my nose pierced. She said she wanted to get a second ring behind the one she already had, and thought it would be fun for us to go together.

HMMMMMM --
had I ever really considered getting my nose pierced?

UHHHHH -- no. 

I am petrified of needles, and have always wondered how those with nose piercings manage to blow their noses, but was afraid to ask.

BUT -- every year on my birthday I think about my mom. 

What exactly does my mom have to do with a pierced nose?

That is a fantastic question!!!

My mom stayed with us from the time of her diagnosis until her death. During that time we had many heart to heart conversations. After a discussion about how challenging I had been as a teenager she mentioned that she always thought I would get a tattoo or a nose piercing after I left home. She mentioned how cute she thought I would look with my nose pierced. At the time I laughed, and said I had no plan to get my nose pierced at almost 50 years of age. 

Over the past 6+ years I have thought about this discussion a lot, and wondered if maybe it wouldn't be so hard to blow your nose with a piece of jewelry inside of it. 

Back to the warm beverage discussion at the table on the morning of my birthday.

I tell them about my mom's thoughts about my having a nose piercing. 

The next thing I know we have appointments for nose piercings at a top reviewed reputable shop downtown for that afternoon. 

When we walked in she asked who was going first. 

I said me. 

In my head I was thinking there is no way I can see what actually is going to happen & then get it done myself. 

I must go first! 

I am known for researching everything very carefully, but this time I went in blind. 

Our piercer was very good. 

It barely hurt -
well it hurt more than I had hoped, but less that I had expected.

My daughter-in-law held my hand & told me how brave I was. 

In the weeks since I have discovered that blowing my nose is no different than before. 

It no longer hurts even when I sleep on my left side.

I have already chosen my next nose stud --- it's a dragonfly!

Remembering my mommy!!!

I will be forever grateful for this experience my daughter-in-law and I shared on their surprise visit to see us. 

We had the best time, and have fantastic memories. 

Creating memories with those we love! 

UPDATED to add:  I got my dragonfly as an early Christmas present!

This is why I search - 

Cause ... 

You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

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Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/

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