This is my space to share my quest to collect as many broken branches as I can in my fractured family tree which resembles a bramble bush more then a proper tree. As I go forward in this blogging journey I hope to share how I have searched far & wide for family - with no regard for where they come from or if I should really want them.
You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

Showing posts with label ronald clare buchner. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ronald clare buchner. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 28, 2025

The Buchner Family ~ All together

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2025: Week 22 (REUNION)


This is week 3 of my blogging style switch

For the next several weeks I will post a photo and a brief description. 

This new style of posting is due to CMC Arthroplasty surgery on my left thumb. 

I will continue with this style until my thumb has sufficiently recovered.

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I'm not sure what the occasion was OR what year this photo was taken - BUT I love  this photo of Lyle & Nina Buchner with their 5 children.


Chris' father, Ron, back row 2nd from left

Father:
Ronald Clare (Ron) Buchner 
B: 24 Jul 1946 Tillsonburg, Oxford, Ontario, Canada
D: 6 Feb 2021 Puerto Vallarta Hospital, Puerto Vallarta, Jalisco, Mexico


Grandparents:
Lyle Clare Buchner 
B: 7 Sep 1926 Tillsonburg, Oxford, Ontario, Canada
D: 29 Jan 2023 Tillsonburg, Oxford, Ontario, Canada
&
Nina Merle Vannatter 
B: 18 JAN 1926 Houghton Township, Ontario, Canada
D: 5 SEP 2002 Tillsonburg, Oxford, Ontario, Canada


Seeing the family ALL together!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***




Find A Grave:

Lyle Clare Buchner. Retrieved May 28th 2025 from
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/262889479/lyle-clare-buchner

Nina Merle (nee Vannatter) Buchner.  Retrieved May 28th 2025 from
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/126361561/nina-merle-buchner

Ronald Clare (Ron) Buchner. Retrieved May 28th 2025 from
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/262908688/ronald-clare-buchner



Photos:

Personal


Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



If you reference or use my blog posts in any way please
include a link to the specific blog and
credit http://somehowrelated.blogspot.com/
My blogs are ©Deborah Buchner, 2014 forward.
All rights reserved.
Please & Thank you!

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Friday, November 4, 2022

Face in Shadows ~ Remembering Ron Buchner

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2022: Week 44 (SHADOWS)


This photo of my father-in-law is one of my favourite photos of him.

The shadows on his face are why I decided to focus on my husband's father, Ronald Clare Buchner, this week. 

This is the photo included with his obituary when he passed away February 6th 2021. Link to Ron's obituary in the sources below.


My first hug with Ron left no doubt they were related - my nose recognized the pheromones. 

This was immediately after hearing the strong similarities in their voices. 

Long before DNA confirmed it - these two were definitely father and son. 

Father & Son

This photo was taken during the week of that first time I met Ron. 

Over the past few weeks I received the photos below from Chris' stepsister, Genine. 

It was lovely to see these photos of Ron over the years - most of which I had never seen before.



























More photos in no particular order:














Remembering a GREAT man - Ron!!!




This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***


Sources:

BUCHNER, Ronald Obituary. Norfolk & Tillsonburg News.  Originally published February 18th 2021. Retrieved November 4th 2022 from 
https://norfolkandtillsonburgnews.remembering.ca/obituary/ronald-buchner-1081642052

Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



If you reference or use my blog posts in any way please
include a link to the specific blog and
credit http://somehowrelated.blogspot.com/
My blogs are ©Deborah Buchner, 2014 forward.
All rights reserved.
Please & Thank you!

______________________________________________________________

Saturday, May 28, 2022

High School Yearbook ~ I Did In Fact Stay Cool


Recently I saw this quote on social media and laughed harder than really was appropriate. I then started thinking about past me, old friends, and fun times. I would never go back and do it again, but remembering the fun times is nice.

Whenever yearbook photo hints show up on Ancestry I always look at them suspiciously. As is true with all hints on Ancestry each record must be carefully considered. I ask myself is that really the person I am searching.

Launching off from my own profile on Ancestry I did a search for Yearbook photos for me. The results - 1000s of photos with links to the yearbook with exactly the same name as mine. When I narrowed it to Canada there was still more than a hundred. Not one of those entries was actually me. 

Many years ago I went for my first criminal record check required for my field of work. Since it was my first time I didn't realize they don't normally put you in a locked room & finger print you before saying 'you are free to go'. The tone they used was cold & distant. On the one hand I thought it was normal since I had no other experience to compare it to, but 19 year old small town me was super scared. It was also my first time in downtown Vancouver which even then was already known as the Downtown Eastside (DTES)

Several months later I had to do another criminal record search in the small town I grew up. When nothing more than taking my paperwork happened I asked the officer why it was different. He held up about 30 feet of connected computer paper telling me the officers in Vancouver thought they had this person. Since the town was small & my family known the officer knew I wasn't that person. He explained that the name was the same, the birth-month one off, and the birth province one over. Apparently these are typical switches in trying to allude identification. 

This was honestly the first time I realized names are very common, and maybe mine was more common than most.

In the years since I have often wondered why I am always 'randomly' selected for extra screening including being SSS'd on a few trips. Every time it happens I think 'random my ass'. BUT there is nothing I can do to eliminate the criminal history of someone I share a name with. Maybe I should get a NEXUS card? In the meantime I choose my clothing & footwear for travel days carefully knowing I will be searched.

BUT it is important not to write off all photos that appear in the yearbook searches. I found these of my father-in-law long before he was a father.


Ron in the back row - red arrow
Glendale Highschool Football team
1961

Ron - 2nd row third from the left
Grade 5 & 6 class
Rolph Street Public School
1958

I wonder how long before one of the records that appears for my own search are actually me.


Finding your relatives in old school records!!!




This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***




Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



If you reference or use my blog posts in any way please
include a link to the specific blog and
credit http://somehowrelated.blogspot.com/
My blogs are ©Deborah Buchner, 2014 forward.
All rights reserved.
Please & Thank you!

______________________________________________________________