This is my space to share my quest to collect as many broken branches as I can in my fractured family tree which resembles a bramble bush more then a proper tree. As I go forward in this blogging journey I hope to share how I have searched far & wide for family - with no regard for where they come from or if I should really want them.
You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

Showing posts with label artemissa. Show all posts
Showing posts with label artemissa. Show all posts

Saturday, April 24, 2021

When the DNA Produces a Paper Trail ~ It's In Your Blood

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2021: Week 16 (DNA)


When I received my DNA results I discovered I was 1/8th European Jewish (Ashkenazic). One of my great grandparents was Jewish or they were both 1/2 Jewish. In all the records I have found they belonged to the Greek Catholic church. I can find no records indicating they practiced the Jewish faith. 


My great grandparents
Alexander & Mary (nee Maximiw) Pellack 

This was the part of the tree that I knew very little about due to my grandfather recreating himself from a Ukrainian born in northern Saskatchewan to a Scots born in San Francisco. 

Clyde & Mary (nee Thomson) Robertson
Clyde was born Max Pellack
Photo taken in 1940


I was 29 years old when I discovered this mystery, and it was my primary reason for doing Ancestry DNA. It took me 20 years, but I finally confirmed my grandfather who I knew as Clyde Robertson was born Max Pellack. 

My dad, me, Grandpa


When I first received my DNA results I tried to use my matches to figure out the missing parts of my tree. I had great difficulty. I had no close matches. I had 1000s of distant matches. I was overwhelmed trying to find the in common ancestors. After I convinced my dad to do Ancestry DNA it was even worse because he had almost 20,000 matches. All his close matches were via his maternal line which we had solid research & connections for. Dad's paternal line past my X2 great grandparents remains a mystery. 


As I tried to connect the shared matches to create some sort of logical tree it never worked. I finally learned why. The majority of my matches on my father's paternal line were very far back. On first glance they appeared to be closer. It was only when I learned about Endogamy that I was finally able tease apart which matches were relevant to my modern day searching & which ones I could ignore for the current mystery solving. 


How to spot endogamous relationships
One way to help you tell the difference between someone who is closely related and someone who shares DNA because of endogamy is to pay attention not just to the total amount of DNA shared, or your relationship prediction, but to look at the size of the pieces of shared DNA. All of our testing companies provide this information. Here’s a screenshot of a father-daughter genetic relationship described at MyHeritage, showing the total amount of shared DNA, how many segments are shared, and the length of the largest segment:

Looking at the size of the biggest piece of DNA, you want that piece to be larger than 20 cM (centimorgans). If the biggest piece is smaller than that, it is unlikely you are related recently, and you can chalk up all that shared DNA to the tight-knit nature of your ancestral community, and not waste your time looking for a common ancestor. 1


In the years since the matches have grown to more than 30,000 for my dad and almost 25,000 for me.  I am no further ahead on my father's paternal side of this Bramble Bush, but I have found a lot of relatives that we didn't know about before via DNA matching.


In the years since I added our DNA to GedMatch & My Heritage I was able to connect with relatives who had information and photos to share. I have made little progress in climbing higher up this branch that was my initial reason to do genetic genealogy for. 

Although it wasn't my initial plan I have learned about mysteries on other parts of our Bramble Bush that have made for difficult researching. They usually start with a message from another researcher who we are related to.  

In July 2020 I received an Ancestry inbox message from a DNA match. She asked me how I was related to Artemissa Merrill (my 3rd great grandmother) because she descended from Artemissa's brother Thomas Forest Merrill who was known as Forrest. This message was the first I heard about brother Forrest. I didn't have him in our Bramble Bush. After adding him there was no doubt that he fit perfectly as expected due to the shared DNA with myself, my aunt, and my grandmother with this newly found cousin from the United States. 

My newly found cousin shared that her X2 great grandfather had disappeared in 1860 leaving behind a wife and young son. She wondered if the Canadian part of the family knew what had happened or had any ideas. I talked to my 95 year old grandmother who said she remembers the name, but no details. Grandma would have been 10 when her great grandmother Artemissa died. She wasn't born when Forest disappeared. 

As we understand what happened. 

Thomas Forest Merrill (known as Forrest) and brother Albert Forest Merrill (known as Albert) were loggers in Alpena, Michigan. They were born in Ontario, Canada. According to coworkers Forrest was heading home to Climax via Detroit. He was walking. Somewhere between leaving work in Alpena and arriving home in Climax he disappeared. 

Source: Google Maps

The family wondered if he had been killed somewhere along the way. They wondered if he had drowned in a river. Maybe he had enlisted, and was killed in the Civil War?  Leaving behind a wife and son by choice didn't sound right. The family never knew what happened to Forrest. Brother Albert searched for him. No one ever found out what happened to Forrest. 

After adding Forrest and descendants to our Bramble Bush I began searching for more information. I found the record below:

U.S. Army, Register of Enlistments, 1798-1914
Name Forest Merrill|
Birth year 1837
Birthplace Canada
Enlistment Age 23
signed up in Detroit
Enlistment period - 5 years
profession - laborer
eyes - hazel
hair - brown
complexion - ruddy
height - 5' 8 1/2"
no regiment or company listed
Remarks: Deserted May 16 1860

When I sent the record to my newly found cousin asking if she had already found it she replied she had not. The question remains did Forrest leave his family by choice?  Did he sign up voluntarily?  Was he conscripted?

In looking at the document I suspect he was conscripted. Maybe he was found on the road between his destinations and the military gave him no choice?  

The reason I think he was conscripted is because of how many of these men deserted. That one document had the records for 41 men whose last names started with the letter M who enlisted in April 1860.
21 were discharged
17 deserted
3 died

In looking at the document I discovered another Merrill who I do not yet have in this Bramble Bush. Joel E Merrill who was a physician born in Concord, Minnesota. He enlisted on April 6th 1860, and deserted on May 22nd 1860. 

I'm no expert, but those desertion odds seem pretty high to me for anyone who enlisted by free will. 

If any of my readers have anything further to add for the mystery of Thomas Forest Merrill (known as Forrest) we would love to hear from you. 

Sometimes the cousins you find have family treasures to share. 

In 1860 when Forest went missing family members from Ontario sent letters to his wife Ana. There were also letters sent before Forest went missing, and some with dates unknown. The family kept those letters, and my newly found cousin sent me scans of the original letters dating 1860 & earlier. 

These letters from 1859:









These letters from 1860:












These letters from dates unknown:










Seeing the actual writing of my X3 & X4 great grandmothers & other relatives was an emotional moment. Reading their words, and hearing their thoughts when there was no chance of my every knowing them. 


Definitely a highlight of my genealogy researching. 





Family treasures from newly found cousins!








This is why I search - 




Cause ... 






You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

















***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***




Footnotes:


1 DNA Testing and Endogamy, Your DNA Guide. Retrieved April 19th 2021 from https://www.yourdnaguide.com/ydgblog/2019/2/23/endogamy



Links:


Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/


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Saturday, July 13, 2019

Bayes Family Reunion - Cousin Bait

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks: Week 28 (REUNION)


In the summer of 1991 there was a Bayes family reunion that my branch of the family didn't attend. We did submit updated information for all of us that was included in the take away book created for that weekend.



Front Cover



A few years ago my mom's cousin's wife (yes it can get way more complicated than that list, and still I understand the connections) sent me three copies of the book. One for each of my sons and myself. 


Just after Christmas I made contact with a DNA match on Ancestry who was related through my Bayes family line. When I asked her for more information she replied that she honestly didn't know. She shared that her dad had moved away from the immediate family, and had lost track of them. I offered to mail her a copy of the Bayes family reunion booklet after finding her, her parents, and her grandparents listed in it.

After she received the book in the mail she sent me a heartfelt email explaining that her dad had been very emotional while he reattached to his family through the stories, drawings, and details.  I loved that I (and the relative who sent me the booklets) was a part of this moment for this branch of my family tree. 



The book outlines the descendants of Solomon & Artimissia* (nee Merrill) Bayes:

* sometimes spelled Artemissa



First page, followed by pages of details about each family member

comment or message me if you would like copies or more information





Artimesa (as spelled) death registry noting mother as Phoebe Lotrip (as spelled)


Solomon Bayes (August 31st 1885 ~ September 16th 1907)
Married - November 8th 1867
Artimissia (also spelled Artemissa) Merrill (June 1st 1842 ~ November 14th 1936)



~~~~~~~~~~~
CHILDREN


Franklin Sheldon Bayes (January 20th 1869 ~ abt 1955
married -July 12th 1898
Mary Story (March 26th 1879 ~ abt 1911)
my X2 great grandparents
they had 5 daughters and 1 son (my great grandfather)


Franklin Bayes with great grandchildren: George, Florence & Margaret



Herman Leonard Bayes (October 1970 ~ unknown)
married - February 14th 1900
Annie Elizabeth Kohaelach (aka Kohelick) (August 1879 ~ unknown)
they had 3 sons and 1 daughter


Vida Blanche Bayes (July 5th 1875 ~ November 1966) ~
never married



Henry Ernest (Harry) Bayes (March 10th 1880 ~ November 9th 1971)
married - December 7th 1910
Annie May (Anna) Yabsley (June 22nd 1887 ~ July 1st 1982
they had 7 sons, raising 6 (one died as an infant)


Ethel Maude Bayes (August 13th 1882 ~ March 15th 1946

married - December 18th 1907
Leonard (Len) Carr (September 3rd 1885 ~ June 10th 1970)
they had 1 son and 1 daughter



Artemissa with daughters Ethel & Blanche (recorded on back)






Blogging as cousin bait!



This is why I search - 

Cause ... 


You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!



**** UPDATE ****
The bait worked - Within 24 hours I have three cousins who are now excitedly awaiting the reunion booklet copy they asked me to send them. 









***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***



Sources:
Bayes Family Reunion Booklet, July 27-28 1991 


Links:
Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/


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include a link to the specific blog and
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Saturday, March 16, 2019

The Merrill Family ~ Historical: Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints & Plural Marriage

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks: Week 11 (Large Family)


When I began searching my family tree with this week's prompt of LARGE FAMILY I discovered many of my ancestors had large families. Many of my female ancestors had more than a dozen children each. Some of my male ancestors remarried after their wife died creating a second family with as many children as the first had. I also noticed how many of the babies and children died long before achieving adulthood. I realized it would be very hard to choose just one family. Then I noticed something intriguing.

Not so long ago I was looking at my X3 great grandmother Artemissa Merrill. She was born the 1st of June 1842 in Cramahe Township in Ontario, Canada. She married Solomon Bayes who was born the 31st of Aug 1845 in Cambellford, Ontario, Canada. They were married on the 8th of November 1867 which is almost exactly100 years before I was born. Artemissa died on the 14th of November 1936, and Solomon died before her on the 16th of September 1907. Artemissa did not remarry after Solomon's death. They had 5 children. My X2 great grandfather was their oldest child: Franklin Sheldon Bayes  born on 20th of January 1869 in Cambellford, Ontario.




Artemissa with daughters Blanche & Ethel



Artemissa and Solomon's family was one of the smaller families I found looking at that time in my family tree. 


Are you wondering why I chose to feature Artemissa in this blog posting about Large Families?

My discovery this week is that Artemissa's first cousin X1 removed (my first cousin X6 removed) was Hosea Merrill. Hosea was born on the 10th of April 1802, and died 5th of February 1864. He was 61 years old when he died. He married Mary Ann Saxton on the 25th of April 1825. In April 1837 Hosea was baptized into the Mormon faith. Wife Mary wasn't baptized until 7 years later in 1844. The Merrill family was part of the migration of the Mormon followers as they traveled across the United States seeking a place they would be accepted. In the book Pioneers and Prominent Men of Utah there is a record that “Hosea Merrell resided in Big Cottonwood, Salem, Menden and Paradise, Utah.” Hosea and Mary had 8 children with 6 surviving to adulthood. One of their sons accepted polygamy, and had 2 wives. The remainder of their children followed the Mormon faith, but did not practice the tenant of plural marriage. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints terminated the practice of plural marriage in 1890. Hosea, Mary, their children, and descendants went on to be very involved in the growth of the LDS church.

While researching the extended parts of my family tree before I understood that plural marriage was an accepted practice at the time I was very confused. How could the wedding of the second and third wife happen while the first wife was still alive. How could one man have so many children the same age. I was viewing the details through my own bias. I took another look at the research I was engaged in with an open-mind, and focused on a reasonable exhaustive search. It was then that everything began to make sense.



Bringing it all back to Artemissa - below is her death certificate:







Searching with an open-mind!




This is why I search - 

Cause ... 



You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!





sources

ESSHOM, FRANK. Pioneers and Prominent Men of Utah: Comprising Photographs, Genealogies, Biographies (Salt Lake City: Utah Pioneer Books, 1913 pp 1033.


As retrieved March 16th 2019 from
https://sites.google.com/site/terryandnancysmithfamily/home/family-histories/hosea-merrill





***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of to the blog post***


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