This is my space to share my quest to collect as many broken branches as I can in my fractured family tree which resembles a bramble bush more then a proper tree. As I go forward in this blogging journey I hope to share how I have searched far & wide for family - with no regard for where they come from or if I should really want them.
You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

Wednesday, March 16, 2022

Spring Flower ~ Rose Honor Dendy

A Rose by any other name 

I always think about my great grandmother Rose Honor (nee Dendy) Bayes when I hear the name Rose. I often think about her when looking at or smelling roses. She died when I was young leaving me curious about who she was. I remember visiting her, but can't remember a lot about her. I do remember she gave great hugs. 

Strangely enough when I think about Great Grandma Rose I think about haircuts. While mom was gone for her grandmother's funeral I told dad he had to trim my bangs for school photo day. When he said he didn't think he could I told him he had to because mom ALWAYS did. Wanting to avoid a potential temper tantrum he did as I asked.

Dad's bang trim on the left & mom's (the following year) on the right

When mom got home she was very upset, but she completely lost it when the photos were delivered. 

Now back to Great Grandma Rose.

Great Grandma was born on April 14th 1906 in the Rural Municipality of Pipestone, Manitoba, Canada.

Rose Honor Dendy was the first child born to recent immigrants from England.

Her parents were:

William Herbert Dendy
BIRTH 27 JUL 1866 • Wandsworth, Surrey, England
DEATH 25 DEC 1929 • Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada
&
Amy Louisa Baker
BIRTH 18 MAR 1875 • Ealing, Middlesex, England
DEATH 23 DEC 1949 • Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada

They arrived in 1903 according to the census records from 1916 & 1921. I have been unable to find any documents besides these 2 census records confirming that date.

1916 census



1921 census


Great Grandma Rose is listed in both censuses. They were living in Calgary. How they got from Manitoba to Calgary is not known to me.

1916 census

1921 census

How she got from Calgary back to Manitoba where she met Great Grandpa Ernie is a tale I do not know.

On July 24th 1925 she married Ernest Elmer Bayes in Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada

Almost 2 years later my grandmother was born, and almost 2 years later their second child, a son, was born. They would have no further children which was quite unusual for that time. 

By 1935 Rose & Ernie were residing at 597 Young Street, Winnipeg, Manitoba with Rose's mother & younger sister Edie. 



In 1948 Rose's mother had her 73rd birthday. I found this article from The Winnipeg Free Press,  Wednesday March 31 1948. The article says they are living at 493 Spence Street, Winnipeg.



We don't know when they moved to 493 Spence Street, Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada (as recorded in the article & voter's list), but we do know they were living there with Rose's mother and their son, Fred. Sister Edith had gotten married in 1941.


By 1957 Rose & Ernie do not have either of their children living with them and mother Amy died in 1949. They are not living alone. They are living with 3 other people whose names I am not familiar with.


Through the moves over these years they appeared to stay in the same neighbourhood. The Winnipeg map shows these three residences were located fairly close to each other. 

BUT then something changed.

6 years later we find Rose & Ernie on the Voter's List living in the Cariboo region of British Columbia. I should know where they were living & why, but I can't recall this bit of information. In 1963 their daughter was living on Vancouver Island, and their son was living in Winnipeg, Manitoba. I think Ernie's sister was living in that area so I suspect that is what brought Rose & Ernie to the Cariboo region of British Columbia.


By 1972 Rose & Ernie were living in the Kiwanis Senior's Housing in cabin 210 at 824 6th Street, Nelson, British Columiba.. Rose & Ernie moved to live closer to their daughter & her family who were living in Nelson. They lived their until her death in 1974. 



After Rose's death widowed Ernie moved in with his daughter where he resided until his death in 1986.

In looking at the cause of death for Rose there is little doubt she had undiagnosed Hemochromatosis. She was not a drinker, and yet had Cirrhosis liver, portal hypertension, & esophageal varices - all of which could be caused by untreated Hemochromatosis. Knowing she was a non-drinker the odds of her cirrhosis being caused by anything else is low. We know that she carried the genes because the 'celtic curse' DNA continues to pass through her descendants. 

****If you want to learn more about Hemochromatosis
& how it is passed down check the sources below****


Passing along the information that could save the life of a relative not yet met.




This is why I search - 



Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!










***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***





Sources:
Find-A-Grave, Rose Honor Dendy Bayes. Retrieved March 16th 2022 from 
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/78217264/rose-honor-bayes

Classic Hereditary Hemochromatosis, Rare Disease Database, NORD - National Organization for Rare Disorders, Inc. Retrieved March 16th 2022 from 
https://rarediseases.org/rare-diseases/classic-hereditary-hemochromatosis/

Images:
Snips from Ancestry. Retrieved March 16th 2022.

Mrs. Dendy honoured on 73rd birthday,  Winnipeg Free Press, Wednesday March 31 1948.


Links:
Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/




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