This is my space to share my quest to collect as many broken branches as I can in my fractured family tree which resembles a bramble bush more then a proper tree. As I go forward in this blogging journey I hope to share how I have searched far & wide for family - with no regard for where they come from or if I should really want them.
You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

Saturday, April 24, 2021

When the DNA Produces a Paper Trail ~ It's In Your Blood

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2021: Week 16 (DNA)


When I received my DNA results I discovered I was 1/8th European Jewish (Ashkenazic). One of my great grandparents was Jewish or they were both 1/2 Jewish. In all the records I have found they belonged to the Greek Catholic church. I can find no records indicating they practiced the Jewish faith. 


My great grandparents
Alexander & Mary (nee Maximiw) Pellack 

This was the part of the tree that I knew very little about due to my grandfather recreating himself from a Ukrainian born in northern Saskatchewan to a Scots born in San Francisco. 

Clyde & Mary (nee Thomson) Robertson
Clyde was born Max Pellack
Photo taken in 1940


I was 29 years old when I discovered this mystery, and it was my primary reason for doing Ancestry DNA. It took me 20 years, but I finally confirmed my grandfather who I knew as Clyde Robertson was born Max Pellack. 

My dad, me, Grandpa


When I first received my DNA results I tried to use my matches to figure out the missing parts of my tree. I had great difficulty. I had no close matches. I had 1000s of distant matches. I was overwhelmed trying to find the in common ancestors. After I convinced my dad to do Ancestry DNA it was even worse because he had almost 20,000 matches. All his close matches were via his maternal line which we had solid research & connections for. Dad's paternal line past my X2 great grandparents remains a mystery. 


As I tried to connect the shared matches to create some sort of logical tree it never worked. I finally learned why. The majority of my matches on my father's paternal line were very far back. On first glance they appeared to be closer. It was only when I learned about Endogamy that I was finally able tease apart which matches were relevant to my modern day searching & which ones I could ignore for the current mystery solving. 


How to spot endogamous relationships
One way to help you tell the difference between someone who is closely related and someone who shares DNA because of endogamy is to pay attention not just to the total amount of DNA shared, or your relationship prediction, but to look at the size of the pieces of shared DNA. All of our testing companies provide this information. Here’s a screenshot of a father-daughter genetic relationship described at MyHeritage, showing the total amount of shared DNA, how many segments are shared, and the length of the largest segment:

Looking at the size of the biggest piece of DNA, you want that piece to be larger than 20 cM (centimorgans). If the biggest piece is smaller than that, it is unlikely you are related recently, and you can chalk up all that shared DNA to the tight-knit nature of your ancestral community, and not waste your time looking for a common ancestor. 1


In the years since the matches have grown to more than 30,000 for my dad and almost 25,000 for me.  I am no further ahead on my father's paternal side of this Bramble Bush, but I have found a lot of relatives that we didn't know about before via DNA matching.


In the years since I added our DNA to GedMatch & My Heritage I was able to connect with relatives who had information and photos to share. I have made little progress in climbing higher up this branch that was my initial reason to do genetic genealogy for. 

Although it wasn't my initial plan I have learned about mysteries on other parts of our Bramble Bush that have made for difficult researching. They usually start with a message from another researcher who we are related to.  

In July 2020 I received an Ancestry inbox message from a DNA match. She asked me how I was related to Artemissa Merrill (my 3rd great grandmother) because she descended from Artemissa's brother Thomas Forest Merrill who was known as Forrest. This message was the first I heard about brother Forrest. I didn't have him in our Bramble Bush. After adding him there was no doubt that he fit perfectly as expected due to the shared DNA with myself, my aunt, and my grandmother with this newly found cousin from the United States. 

My newly found cousin shared that her X2 great grandfather had disappeared in 1860 leaving behind a wife and young son. She wondered if the Canadian part of the family knew what had happened or had any ideas. I talked to my 95 year old grandmother who said she remembers the name, but no details. Grandma would have been 10 when her great grandmother Artemissa died. She wasn't born when Forest disappeared. 

As we understand what happened. 

Thomas Forest Merrill (known as Forrest) and brother Albert Forest Merrill (known as Albert) were loggers in Alpena, Michigan. They were born in Ontario, Canada. According to coworkers Forrest was heading home to Climax via Detroit. He was walking. Somewhere between leaving work in Alpena and arriving home in Climax he disappeared. 

Source: Google Maps

The family wondered if he had been killed somewhere along the way. They wondered if he had drowned in a river. Maybe he had enlisted, and was killed in the Civil War?  Leaving behind a wife and son by choice didn't sound right. The family never knew what happened to Forrest. Brother Albert searched for him. No one ever found out what happened to Forrest. 

After adding Forrest and descendants to our Bramble Bush I began searching for more information. I found the record below:

U.S. Army, Register of Enlistments, 1798-1914
Name Forest Merrill|
Birth year 1837
Birthplace Canada
Enlistment Age 23
signed up in Detroit
Enlistment period - 5 years
profession - laborer
eyes - hazel
hair - brown
complexion - ruddy
height - 5' 8 1/2"
no regiment or company listed
Remarks: Deserted May 16 1860

When I sent the record to my newly found cousin asking if she had already found it she replied she had not. The question remains did Forrest leave his family by choice?  Did he sign up voluntarily?  Was he conscripted?

In looking at the document I suspect he was conscripted. Maybe he was found on the road between his destinations and the military gave him no choice?  

The reason I think he was conscripted is because of how many of these men deserted. That one document had the records for 41 men whose last names started with the letter M who enlisted in April 1860.
21 were discharged
17 deserted
3 died

In looking at the document I discovered another Merrill who I do not yet have in this Bramble Bush. Joel E Merrill who was a physician born in Concord, Minnesota. He enlisted on April 6th 1860, and deserted on May 22nd 1860. 

I'm no expert, but those desertion odds seem pretty high to me for anyone who enlisted by free will. 

If any of my readers have anything further to add for the mystery of Thomas Forest Merrill (known as Forrest) we would love to hear from you. 

Sometimes the cousins you find have family treasures to share. 

In 1860 when Forest went missing family members from Ontario sent letters to his wife Ana. There were also letters sent before Forest went missing, and some with dates unknown. The family kept those letters, and my newly found cousin sent me scans of the original letters dating 1860 & earlier. 

These letters from 1859:









These letters from 1860:












These letters from dates unknown:










Seeing the actual writing of my X3 & X4 great grandmothers & other relatives was an emotional moment. Reading their words, and hearing their thoughts when there was no chance of my every knowing them. 


Definitely a highlight of my genealogy researching. 





Family treasures from newly found cousins!








This is why I search - 




Cause ... 






You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

















***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***




Footnotes:


1 DNA Testing and Endogamy, Your DNA Guide. Retrieved April 19th 2021 from https://www.yourdnaguide.com/ydgblog/2019/2/23/endogamy



Links:


Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/


If you reference or use my blog posts in any way please
include a link to the specific blog and
credit http://somehowrelated.blogspot.com/
My blogs are ©Deborah Buchner, 2014 forward.
All rights reserved.
Please & Thank you!




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Thursday, April 15, 2021

Researching Brick Walls ~ A Bag of Tricks

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2021: Week 15 (BRICK WALL)


I have written about my brick walls many times.

In last week's post I discovered I haven't researched high enough in my tree. I realized I definitely need to focus on going higher up this Bramble Bush.


This week's prompt of BRICK WALL is an ideal time to spend some time breaking down those walls. 

BUT that is not what I did this week. 

Maybe I haven't mentioned it yet, but I chase shiny things.

As I began searching I started to ponder the phrase BRICK WALL as it relates to Genealogy. I then made the mistake of typing BRICK WALL GENEALOGY into a search bar, and the next thing I knew it was time for bed.

On the negative side I spent the entire day staring at my computer screen, and had nothing to add to my brick walls. 

On the positive side I now have a whole new 'bag of tricks' to try. 

I will share my new Brick Wall researching resources for this week's blog.

Normally I include my sources at the end, but this blog post is about these sources so you won't find any at the end. 

They will all be listed below in alphabetical order by the article's title. 


EXCEPT in first spot, in non-alphabetical order, is the article I found by Amy Johnson Crow.  

How a Professional Genealogist Approaches Brick Wall Problems, Amy Johnson Crow. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from 
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/professional-genealogist-brick-walls/

She is the creator of the challenge 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks. She was the inspiration that moved me from an uncommitted relationship with my genealogy blog to a committed relationship.

She deserves to be highlighted in first place!

While you are at her site  be sure to check out all of her other interesting and informative articles!


Are You Really at A Genealogy Brick Wall? Family Tree Magazine. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from 
https://www.familytreemagazine.com/strategies/true-genealogy-brick-walls/
Family Tree Magazine's article "Are You Really at a Genealogy Brick Wall?" explains what a brick wall really is, and outlines tips to work around tough to find relatives. There are so many articles at this site you may lose DAYS as you click. If you sign up for their Free eNewsletter you will receive Family Tree 10 Essential Family History Research Forms. You can also sign up for a membership, and access more forms, research hints, and attend courses. 

Brick Wall Busting Playlist. Family History Fanatics. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLcVx-GSCjcdkUTzh5k8Vr3dtWwjyOaVST

DNA Brick Wall: Finding a Female Ancestor, Your DNA Guide. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from 
https://www.yourdnaguide.com/ydgblog/2020/10/14/1119-lisa-dna-story-brick-wall-tree

Brick walls or just pit stops? Leaves Family History. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from https://leavesfamilyhistory.co.uk/blog/brickwalls/

DNA Testing and Endogamy, Your DNA Guide. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from
https://www.yourdnaguide.com/ydgblog/2019/2/23/endogamy

The Dreaded Brick Wall. What to do next?, Ancestry Blog. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from
https://www.ancestry.com/corporate/blog/the-dreaded-brick-wall-what-to-do-next/

Genealogy - Brick Wall, Collection by Grant Davis, Pinterest. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from https://www.pinterest.ca/histgen/genealogy-brick-wall/

Genealogy Research Tips: Breaking Through Brick Walls and Getting Past Dead Ends, New York Public Library Blog. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from 
https://www.nypl.org/blog/2011/08/03/genealogy-research-tips

Genealogy: The Brick Wall Part One, Fauquier County Public Library. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from https://fauquierlibrary.org/2017/09/06/genealogy-the-brick-wall-part-one/

Genealogy: The Brick Wall Part Two, Fauquier County Public Library. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from https://fauquierlibrary.org/2017/09/25/genealogy-the-brick-wall-part-two/

Hit a Brick Wall? Cyndi's List. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from
https://www.cyndislist.com/brickwall/articles/

Hit a Brick Wall? Go back and re-read everything. Irish Family Roots Blog. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from  
https://www.irishfamilyroots.com/post/hit-a-brick-wall-go-back-and-re-read-everything
You can receive a 4 page eBook -  7 Steps for Busting Genealogy Brick Walls from Family History Fanatics that provides directions on how to tackle your most difficult research challenges, and when to call in an expert!

My Genealogy Brick Wall John Townley - Brick Wall Busting Series Introduction, Family History Fanatics. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1tv2sc2k1nY

I’ve Hit a Brick Wall… Now What?, Geneosity. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from https://www.geneosity.com/ive-hit-a-brick-wall-now-what/

Overcoming Brick Walls in Your Family Tree with a Genealogy DNA Test, Family Search Blog. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from|
https://www.familysearch.org/blog/en/genealogy-dna-test/

Reviewing Research and Records Opens the Door in Regina Huberty’s Brick Wall, Opening Doors in Brick Walls Blog. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from 
https://openingdoorsinbrickwalls.wordpress.com/

Solve Your Genealogy Brick Wall, Kindred Past. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from
https://kindredpast.com/2020/01/22/solve-your-genealogy-brick-wall/

10 ‘Brick Wall’ Tips for Your Family Tree, Tenacious Genealogy. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from https://tenaciousgenealogy.com/brick-wall-tips/

Using DNA to Solve Genealogy Brick Walls, Legacy Tree Genealogists. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from https://www.legacytree.com/blog/using-dna-to-solve-genealogy-brick-walls

What are Genealogy Brick Walls? Family History Fanatics. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from https://www.familyhistoryfanatics.com/post/genealogy-brick-walls

When Is a Brick Wall Not a Brick Wall? The Family History Guide Blog. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from http://www.thefhguide.com/blog/when-is-a-brick-wall-not-a-brick-wall/

Will You Be Your Family’s Brick Wall?, Geneosity. Retrieved April 10th 2021 from 
https://www.geneosity.com/will-you-be-your-familys-brick-wall/





When chasing shiny things isn't a waste of time!








This is why I search - 




Cause ... 






You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

















***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***



Links:


Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/


If you reference or use my blog posts in any way please
include a link to the specific blog and
credit http://somehowrelated.blogspot.com/
My blogs are ©Deborah Buchner, 2014 forward.
All rights reserved.
Please & Thank you!




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Friday, April 9, 2021

The Great Migration of Canada ~ This Bramble Bush

   52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2021: Week 14 (GREAT)


When I thought about GREAT I immediately thought about the great grandparents that make up this Bramble Bush. 

In searching for the biggest great I started clicking through the top of our lines. I discovered I am only up to about 5th or 6th greats on most of our lines.

 When I first started searching I hit several brick walls. By adding extended family I was able to break through those early brick walls. I decided then that I would not race to the top. I would make sure I added as many family connections as I could before going higher. 

It seems I need to refocus on going higher before going any wider. 

In pondering what else I wanted to write about I stumbled upon THE GREAT MIGRATION OF CANADA, 1815-1850. 

I was intrigued to learn that over 400,000 British citizens left their homes to move to Canada.

What an adventure that must have been. They bravely set off for a land they knew nothing about. After many days at sea they traveled across a new land in search of their new home. 

Their journey resulted in this family calling itself CANADIAN. Their courage and hopes resulted in this Bramble Bush being rooted solidly in Canada.


What a gift I was given by these early immigrants who braved all to come to Canada. 

Each had a story that I do not know, but wish I could have asked before it was too late. 

I was intrigued by a group of Bayes siblings who immigrated to Canada within THE GREAT MIGRATION timeline.

Samuel & Elizabeth had 10 children.  Their children were aged 8 months to 16 when Samuel died.

7 of their children immigrated to Canada: Rosemond, John Christmas, Mary, Ann, Samuel,  Solomon, James (Joseph). One stayed in England: Elizabeth. Two I have not been able to confirm yet: Rebecca & Celia.  

Rebecca and her husband (James Hewitt) appear to have stayed in England, but their daughter was married in Canada when she was 22.

In looking at the movement from England to Canada it's clear the family members moved at different times. I haven't yet found the arrival dates for most of them.  They all ended up in the same general area. Some were married in England before coming to Canada, and some married in Canada. It appears as though not all of the members of this family immigrated to Canada, but a reasonably exhaustive search hasn't yet happened to make this conclusion. 

There are more branches of this Bramble Bush who arrived from Britain during THE GREAT MIGRATION OF CANADA.

This one family is on my maternal grandmother's paternal side.


THE BAYES FAMILY 

The Parents

Samuel Bayes
BIRTH ABT. AUG 1778 • Thornage, Norfolk, England
DEATH 21 JUL 1818 • Hunworth, Norfolk, , England
and
Elizabeth Alexander Saunders
B
IRTH ABT 1784 • , Norfolk, England
DEATH JANUARY 1866 • Burgh, Norfolk, England, UK

The Children

Rosemond Bayes
BIRTH 11 SEP 1801 • Edgefield, Norfolk, England
DEATH 4 JAN 1896 • Haldimand, Northumberland, Ontario, Canada

Rebecca Bayes
BIRTH 10 FEB 1803 • Thornage, Norfolk, , England
DEATH Unknown

John Christmas Bayes
BIRTH DEC 1804 • King’s Lynn, Norfolk, England
DEATH 3 NOV 1877 • Peel, Ontario, Canada

Mary Bayes
BIRTH 6 SEP 1806 • Hunworth, Norfolk, England
DEATH 4 JAN 1896 • Haldimand, Northumberland, Ontario, Canada

Ann Bayes
BIRTH 22 JAN 1809 • Hunworth, Norfolk, England
DEATH 1852 • Hamilton, Hamilton, Ontario, Canada

Celia Bayes
BIRTH 23 SEP 1810 • Hunworth, Norfolk, England
DEATH Unknown

Samuel Bayes
BIRTH 3 APR 1812 • Hunworth, Norfolk, , England
DEATH 20 NOV 1884 • Bidwell, Algoma, Ontario, Canada

Elizabeth Bayes
BIRTH 2 JAN 1814 • Hunworth, Norfolk, England
DEATH DEC 1878 • Holt, Aylsham, Norfolk, England

Solomon Bayes
BIRTH 26 NOV 1815 • Hunworth, Norfolk, , England
DEATH 25 OCT 1882 • Northumberland, , Ontario, Canada

James (Joseph) Bayes
BIRTH NOV 1817 • Norfolk, , England
DEATH 4 MAY 1897 • Forest, Lambton, Ont.

Solomon Bayes is my 4th great grandfather. He was 26 years old when he married 18 year old Mary in Canada. Mary was also born in England. I have not found the date of her arrival in Canada, but she immigrated with her parents and the majority of her siblings. 

Mary Ann Tuck
BIRTH 15 JAN 1823 • Sharrington, Norfolk, England
DEATH 28 JAN 1908 • Cramahe, Northumberland County, Ontario, Canada

Her parents:

James Tuck
BIRTH 19 JAN 1791 • Sharrington, Norfolk, England
DEATH 13 JAN 1881 • Cramahe Township, Northumberland, Ontario, Canada
&
Martha Bolter
BIRTH ABT 1788 • Norwich, Norfolk, England
DEATH 24 NOV 1883 • Northumberland, Ontario, Canada


I will never know the story firsthand of how my people decided to journey to Canada or how difficult their decision & journey was. 

I will always be grateful that I was born into a world where I was safe & free. Their efforts were not squandered by those who came after them.




Grateful to be Canadian!








This is why I search - 




Cause ... 






You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

















***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***




Sources:


Exodus: Movement of the People Conference, The Great Migration of Canada. Retrieved April 9th 2021 from https://www.exodus2013.co.uk/the-great-migration-of-canada/

Intriguing History, The Great Migration of Canada saw one of the biggest movements of people around the globe1. Retrieved April 9th 2021 from
https://intriguing-history.com/great-migration-of-canada/

xtimeline, 1815-1850 The Great Migration, Retrieved April 9th 2021 from
http://www.xtimeline.com/timeline/Events-leading-up-to-Canadian-Confederacy/1815-1850-The-Great-Migration-1


Links:


Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/



If you reference or use my blog posts in any way please
include a link to the specific blog and
credit http://somehowrelated.blogspot.com/
My blogs are ©Deborah Buchner, 2014 forward.
All rights reserved.
Please & Thank you!



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