This is my space to share my quest to collect as many broken branches as I can in my fractured family tree which resembles a bramble bush more then a proper tree. As I go forward in this blogging journey I hope to share how I have searched far & wide for family - with no regard for where they come from or if I should really want them.
You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

Tuesday, July 25, 2023

Nature Abounds For Young Naturalists ~ Natural High

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2023: Week 30 (IN THE NEWS)


A few weeks ago I wrote about our children growing up to enjoy the great outdoors. 

For this week's prompt IN THE NEWS I share a couple of newspaper articles showing some of that foundation.

The first article is from THE GRAND FORKS GAZETTE in Grand Forks, BC, Canada published on January 31st 2004 when our boys were 6 & 10

Our Maple Tree In Grand Forks


The second article is from THE CHILLIWACK PROGRESS in Chilliwack, BC, Canada published on September 30th 2006 when our boys were 9 & 13

Our Walnut Tree In Chilliwack

We had originally joined the Young Naturalists' Club when we lived in a rural area of Langley in 2002 & 2003. When we returned to Grand Forks our boys were saddened to find no YNC in the area. Having ran programs for children & youth as part of my working life I knew I had the skills necessary to start the program in the Kootenay Boundary area. When we moved to Chilliwack later the local program was seeking a leader, and I agreed to take it over. 

I continued to lead the program until our boys developed other interests, and I could no longer justify the volunteer hours needed for the Young Naturalists. 

For a long time after stepping down as leader I really missed it. 



Reminiscing about the fun times while raising our children!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***



Photos:

Grand Forks Gazette
Chilliwack Progress



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Tuesday, July 18, 2023

Happy Birthday X4 Great Grandfather Thomas Thomson ~ Born 232 Years Ago

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2023: Week 29 (BIRTHDAYS)


As I sat down to write this week's blog about BIRTHDAYS I decided to find someone in our Bramble Bush who was born on July 18th. 

I found:
Thomas Thomson
BIRTH 18 JUL 1791 • Wemyss, Fife, Scotland
DEATH 26 MAY 1833 • Dalkeith, Scotland

Exactly 232 years ago my paternal 4th great grandfather was born to 

John Thomson
BIRTH 12 JUL 1763 • Seggie, Orwell, Kinross, Scotland
DEATH BEF. 1829 • Scotland, United Kingdom
and
Jean Beveridge
BIRTH BEF. 20 OCT 1765 • Portmoak, Kinross-shire, Scotland
DEATH Unknown

My 3rd great grandmother is their daughter
Agnes Thomson
BIRTH ABT. 1826 • Inverkeithing, East Wymess, Fife, Scotland
DEATH 7 FEB 1898 • Inverkeithing, Fife, Scotland

Agnes retained her maiden name as her married name when she married:
Henry Thomson
BIRTH ABT. 1825 • Buckhaven, East Wemyss, Fife, Scotland
DEATH 3 OCT 1901 • Buckhaven, Fife, Scotland

who was the son of
Alexander Thomson
BIRTH 4 MAR 1796 • Buckhaven, Fifeshire, Scotland
DEATH 5 FEB 1875 • Buckhaven, Fifeshire, Scotland
and
Williamina (Minnie) Cargill
BIRTH ABT. 1795 • Wemyss, Fife, Scotland
DEATH ABT. 1855 • North Berwick, East Lothian, Scotland

I have not yet wrapped these 2 Thomson family lines back together again, but I have no doubt that Agnes and Henry were somehow related.

My X2 great grandfather, son of Agnes & Henry Thomson was
Thomas Thomson
BIRTH ABT. 1849 • Buckhaven, East Wemyss, Fife, Scotland
DEATH 22 FEB 1919 • Edinburgh, Midlothian, Scotland
married to
Isabella Glass
BIRTH ABT. 1849 • North Berwick, East Lothian, Scotland
DEATH 29 JUL 1943 • Edinburgh, City of Edinburgh, Scotland

My great grandfather, son of Thomas & Isabella was
Thomas Thomson
BIRTH 10 MAY 1880 • North Berwick, East Lothian, Scotland
DEATH 19 NOV 1940 • Kananaskis, Alberta, Canada
married to
Elizabeth Young Slicer
BIRTH 4 AUG 1882 • North Berwick, Haddingtonshire, Scotland
DEATH 24 JUN 1958 • Burnaby, British Columbia, Canada

When I first started searching the Thomson line I was very confused by the number of Thomas Thomsons to be found.

This is the area the family is predominantly from. 


Today I found X4 great grandfather Thomas Thomson who was born 232 years ago exactly, and realized I know nothing about him because each time I try I get mixed up in the Thomson lines.

Up next I will try to find more information about this X4 great grandfather and his ancestors. 


When you realize you don't know enough about a particular line!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***

Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



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Monday, July 10, 2023

Recreating An Old Family Photo ~ 91 Years Later

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2023: Week 28 (RANDOM)


In 1932 the photo on the top was taken of my 
Great Uncle Alf (left) & Great Uncle Den (right).


The photo on the bottom was recreated in 2023 by their sons/nephews (my 1st cousins X2 removed).

Great Uncle Alf
Alfred (Alf) Dendy
BIRTH 29 MAY 1900 • Clapham, Surrey, England
DEATH 4 APR 1984 • Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada

Great Uncle Den
Dennis (Dennie) (Den) Dendy
BIRTH 14 AUG 1909 • Maryfield, Saskatchewan, Canada
DEATH 11 JAN 1999 • Edgewater, British Columbia, Canada




The Dendy blood runs strong!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***




Photos:

Personal




Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



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Tuesday, July 4, 2023

The Love Of the Great Outdoors - Family Built

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2023: Week 27 (THE GREAT OUTDOORS)

Our kids are adults who like the outdoors. 

I would like to believe we created this enjoyment with our early camping trips.

Our oldest was 6 months old when he went on his first camping trip. 

It was a May Long Weekend family trip that had about 6 families and about 20 people. 

My parents were staying in their travel trailer. They were not pleased when Chris and I would not let them take their firstborn grandchild into the trailer with them. They were worried because, as was typical, the weather was cold and wet. 

My parents weren't happy when we said he would be fine in our tent, and had to toughen up because we were not delicate campers.

I don't remember it, but Chris says there was actual snow falling over that weekend. Regardless if there was actual snow it was very cold & wet. Our little one was fine snuggled with his parents in the tent. 

These annual trips always resulted in tarp town where several tarps were constructed together to keep the entire area mostly free from falling rain.

There was an unofficial fishing derby - Chris won that first year with this one!



1996, Pregnant with our second - we were still camping in a tent


Our youngest was only 2 months old for his first camping trip in a tent. 

Several years later we bought that travel trailer from my parents. 

As the years passed we became delicate campers looking for comfort.

That trailer traveled across BC and Alberta, and I took great delight in having my own bathroom on the road. 

One of the highlights from those years was our trip to Drumheller.
We stayed in a very nice campground by the river. 


Later we sold the trailer to buy a motorhome so we could tow our boat. 




We were a one vehicle family, and it didn't take me long to realize that the motorhome was insured all year round because of our fair weather on the WEsT Coast, and I could use if for errand running. 

I certainly never thought a motorhome would become my ride of choice, but it shockingly worked well once I learned how to navigate the size.

One year I took it to the end of homeschool year Sports Meet. The pop-up coffee shop was a hit with the parents, and the kids loved the frozen treats.  

Finding a parking spot for errand running wasn't always easy, but the grocery store was never a challenge. 

Chris worked 4 on/4 off  - which left us able to go away for all of his days off. 

When we arrived home from one trip I restocked for the next trip. 

We enjoyed 'boon docking' with the comforts the motorhome provided, and tried to convince ourselves we were roughing it. 

Our oldest believed we were because he couldn't find consistent cell coverage.



One year we put the motorhome away for winter, and in the spring never woke it up.

Over that winter our kids developed interests that left them unable to go away 

Back left with sunglasses and beige shirt
Expedition Instructor, Cadet Camp, Vernon

The motorhome became an eyesore in our driveway.

Last year we had it towed to the dump.

It was nice to see the broken down motorhome depart the driveway. 

We will fondly remember our outdoor adventures that built a foundation of outdoor love in our kids.




When your kids grow up to be interesting humans!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***



Photos:

Personal


Sources:

BOONDOCKING 101, Tips from Cortni Armstrong, The Flipping Nomad. Keystone RV. Retrieved July 1st 2023 from
https://www.keystonerv.com/keystone-life/boondocking-101


Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



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Tuesday, June 27, 2023

Parent-Child Mother Goose ~ Certified Teacher

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2023: Week 26 (SLOW)


This week I am going to write about ME!!

Specifically - one of my achievements that took many years to accomplish that is best represented by this nursery rhyme about a slow snail.

In 2019 I began the teacher training process for the National Parent-Child Mother Goose program. 

During the training we had to present a rhyme complete with actions. I chose this lovely story about a garden snail that is perfect for actions with babies.

Although it felt like I was very slow in completing the certification process I look back now realizing 2 years is not that long.

At the time it really did feel like I would never achieve this goal.

The final step to certification involved a one page submitted reflection of the entire training process.  

Below you will find my personal story (edited a bit for privacy) of how I became a Parent-Child Mother Goose Teacher. 

More than 20 years ago I was drawn into a magical group of children and their parents singing and chanting rhymes as I walked down the hall to my office. I was the Community Integration Coordinator in a small town. One of the youngsters in that group was on my caseload. He had minimal speech. He was a quiet child who preferred the company of chickens. Here he was in the center of a large group of humans dancing and smiling. I decided that day I wanted to be a teacher for this amazing program called Parent-Child Mother Goose.

Over the years I saw advertisements for Parent-Child Mother Goose programs. When I checked for teacher training the timing was never right. That changed in December 2018 when I saw an advertisement for training in the neighbouring community. I had just received a monetary Christmas gift from my father that coincidentally matched the registration fee. 

About 20 years after I first became enchanted by this amazing program I began the process to join the Parent-Child Mother Goose teaching team. 

On our first day of training the entire class was drawn in by our Instructor. Her passion for the program was infectious. I am pretty sure every learner in that room was already envisioning themselves in the role of teacher with her skills. 

After the training I felt prepared to take on the challenge of Self-Evaluation & Certification. I thought the hardest part was behind me, but it wasn’t long before I realized the hardest part was yet to come. 

I hadn’t thought about how difficult it would be to find a program that needed a co-teacher. My first disappointment was finding out I couldn’t be a part of a program that took place in any of the local libraries – even on my day off due to my library qualifications and employment status. The only general sessions in my community were happening  in our libraries' meeting rooms. After 2 months of networking almost daily our local child development office invited me to volunteer for their program in collaboration with the local community services agency. I felt like this was a perfect fit given my previous work. 

Co-teaching with a very experienced teacher was such a perfect start to my teaching experience. Our terms were only 8 weeks which meant I would need to co-teach for 4 terms to get my minimum of 30 sessions. Everything looked great for that to happen. I loved the weekly sessions, and my confidence was growing with every group. Then Covid arrived, and the sessions moved to a Zoom format resulting in no need for a volunteer. I was only halfway through my sessions, and Covid sidelined my progress. As I pondered what I could do I had a creative idea that fit within my Covid bubble. 

My friend’s grandson was set to begin Preschool in September 2020. Due to Covid the preschool decided to take the year off. His mom joined up with another mom whose son was supposed to attend the same preschool. They set up a homeschool preschool program. The National Office supported my idea of teaching this small preschool without a co-teacher. The moms agreed initially to help me earn my teaching credentials. It wasn’t long before they realized how important this magical program really was to their youngsters. They changed their schooling schedule twice to accommodate changes in my schedule. They asked to continue with a spring term even though I had met all of my required teaching sessions. 

When I first started co-teaching I was hesitant. I do not have a quality singing voice. With practice I can now call myself a story-teller. In the 37 sessions I taught I realized the importance of: believing in the program, sharing the passion, and having fun. My repertoire of rhymes, songs, and stories grew exponentially over the 2 terms I had no co-teacher.  The learning and program benefits happen as a side effect of the passion shared with the families. For more than 20 years I have been a fan of this amazing program. 

I am super proud to join the ranks of qualified teachers for this magical program - Parent-Child Mother Goose!

                                                                                                Deb, March 20, 2021

I still treasure this mug I received  as a present from my little preschool class at the end of the 2021 school year. 



Reflecting on the impacts we have on the lives of the people we connect with!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***



Sources:

Parent-Child Mother Goose Program. Retrieved June 27th 2023 from
https://nationalpcmgp.ca/



Photos:

Slowly Slowly - Created by the author using slip art.

Personal



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Tuesday, June 20, 2023

Time Flies ~ Photos To Remember

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2023: Week 25 (FAST)


Time flies.

Faster than expected.

This week my husband received a box of memories from his grandparents house.

In the box was a photo that I remembered seeing, but no one I asked over the years had a copy.

I was delighted to find this photo in the box.


Our son, his father, his father, and his father!

The 1st born male of each of these 4 generations to carry the Buchner family name. 

Also included in that box of treasures was this family photo that I don't remember ever seeing, but I know it arrived at Chris' grandparents house via my sending it to them.


When we were in the thick of parenting with babies and little ones I remember someone saying 'the days are long, but the years are short'. 

Looking back now that we are empty nested this sentiment hits me in the feels.


Realizing how fast the the years have gone by!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***


Photos:

B

Personal


Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
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Sunday, June 11, 2023

Last One Standing ~ OR What Should Have Been A Weekend

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2023: Week 24 (LAST ONE STANDING)

Today is our anniversary. 

As I was thinking about what to write for this week's prompt I realized that 31 years together is an achievement in the world we live in. 

Our marriage isn't the only one that has lasted this long, but it is true that we are part of a small group of folks still standing with each other. 

I think our marriage fits for last one standing. 

With the way our relationship started no one thought it would last. 

There is no one more surprised than I, that it did.

Going back to the beginning ... 

31 years ago my day began like every other day. 

I had no idea that in the evening there would be a PLOT TWIST that turned everything I thought I knew upside down. 

31 years ago I met a boy, and everything changed 💗

31 years ago this evening I met a boy who wanted a tricycle race partner, and I agreed. 

He was an out of town construction worker staying in the hotel. 

We came in last because that boy couldn't guzzle beer, but it turned out to be an untapped talent of mine 🤣  

He was funny, he could dance, and he was interesting to talk to. 

I walked out without saying goodbye or giving him my last name or number. 

I had plans that a boyfriend didn't fit into, and was not the least bit interested. 

A week or two later he found me at my place of work. 

He imploded my plans as only Bucky could. 

We moved in together almost right away, and didn't plan to ever get married. 

That changed when he was almost electrocuted at work, and I realized that it would be easier to get the widow's pension from CPP if we were married. 









































































We got married on the second anniversary of our tricycle race meeting just a few weeks after that near-miss at work. 

After 31 years together (29 married) he still makes me laugh ... usually with him, but sometimes at him. 

31 years into 'what should have been a weekend' 

“One day, in your search for happiness, you discover a partner by your side, and you realize that your happiness has come to help you search.”                                                                                             
 ― Robert Brault



Where this Bramble Bush first began!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***

Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



If you reference or use my blog posts in any way please
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Please & Thank you!

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