This is my space to share my quest to collect as many broken branches as I can in my fractured family tree which resembles a bramble bush more then a proper tree. As I go forward in this blogging journey I hope to share how I have searched far & wide for family - with no regard for where they come from or if I should really want them.
You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

Tuesday, October 15, 2019

Family Adventures ~ Making Memories

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks: Week 42 (ADVENTURE)


My ancestors were an adventuresome bunch. They left their home countries for new lives. Often without the language or finances to make their new home an easy transition. When I began looking for whose adventures to share this week I wasn't able to choose just one.


As a child we took many road trips. My brother is 2 1/2 years younger than I am. He was an early reader, and I was a late reader. I remember us being in the upper part of the camper (before seat-belts were required), and watching the signs go zinging by. My brother and I were watching for small graveyards. He had read "Little Burials Ahead" on a sign. Seems my interest in graveyards and genealogy began at a young age. 






There were no graveyards that we could see. The signs actually said "Litter Barrels Ahead". Not bad reading for a 5 year old to read off the signs as they were speeding by.




I then began thinking about the trips my husband and I took with our boys. The family adventures we hope they remember as fun when they are older. 


When they were small we watched the movie Lilo & Stitch. We loved that movie (watching it over and over and over again). I promised our boys that we would take them to Hawaii on vacation some day. It only took 15 years, but in 2018 we followed through with that promise. We had an amazing family vacation with our adult kids in Maui. Sitting on the beach we heard how this was our first family vacation. 


How could they think that?  We traveled all over Western Canada as a family. We had taken many trips with them. 

Our boys exploring, Hawaii, 2018

I then realized they were right.  We had traveled as a family many times, but this was our first family vacation.


Our boys, Maui Ocean Center, 2018




When the boys were small we had a 17' travel trailer we towed behind our Ford Bronco. We traveled across 4 Canadian provinces to visit family every 2 or 3 years. Along the way we took alternating routes to explore. In between those trips we explored closer to home on weekends or week long journeys.


My husband and I pored over maps choosing the route we would take to show different parts of western Canada to our boys. We carefully chose where we would stay to visit local attractions. One year, as we were finalizing our plans, I went out shopping to buy a portable dvd player for the upcoming trip. Instead I came home with 2 portable cd players. I had realized that if they were watching a movie while we were driving across Canada they wouldn't see what our country looked like. We traveled with a large lidded tote of audiobooks from the library. As they listened to their books they were seeing the landscape pass by. We wanted our boys to know what our country looked like.



In 2002 we took a 3 week trip. We left home, and spent our first night at a campground in Three Valley Gap. What an amazing place to visit. The guided tour grants access to the inside of the restored buildings. There is a Model T collection. You can see the rail car that our current Prime Minister (Justin Trudeau, age 10) was traveling on with his father, Pierre Elliot Trudeau when the famous “Trudeau salute” occurred.
Enlightening our kids to Canada's history - CHECK!  




Next we traveled to the Calgary zoo for the afternoon. Then on to Drumheller, Alberta where we spent the night in a campsite near the river for two nights. We spent the whole day at  the Royal Tyrrell Museum of Palaeontology, and explored Drumheller. 








We visited the Reptile Refuge Center


We viewed the local terrain



Dinosaurs, reptiles, local geography - CHECK!


We then traveled on to Winnipeg to visit with my dad and grandmother for a week. We visited the Manitoba Children's Museum, The Forks National Historic Site of Canada, and Lower Fort Garry National Historic Site of Canada.
Family Time - CHECK! Local history - CHECK!



As we left Winnipeg heading to Eastend, Saskatchewan a flock of Canadian Geese posed for us along the highway.
Wildlife - CHECK!  



In Eastend we set off to find the tiny dinosaur research facility called the T-Rex Discovery Center. When we visited we were the only visitors. It didn't take us long to go through the very informative and interesting facility. 
Science knowledge - CHECK!


As we left Eastend, Saskatchewan heading to Canmore, Alberta I was looking at the map. Map reading skills are not my greatest skill. As I was trying to figure out where we were & where we were going I happened to notice Head-Smashed-In Buffalo Jump. I asked my husband if he had ever visited in his many trips back and forth across Canada as a child. He said he might have, but since he was always sleeping from the gravol his mom gave him he didn't remember if they had. 


I said "I always wanted to stop when I was a kid, but my parents were always in too much of a rush to get us to Ontario when we traveled so they always said no when I asked". With that, the car came to a screeching halt at the side of the road. My husband took the map from me, and said we are going. 


Head-Smashed-In Buffalo Jump was the best interpretive center I have ever visited. The information shared was enlightening, and the motion activated audio and lighting enhanced the experience. We stayed at the campsite nearby, and heard a coyote pack making a kill in the middle of the night. The boys were enthralled with the idea of the buffalo jumping off the cliffs.
Cultural history - CHECK!



Thinking back on why we would have traveled the odd route backtracking to Canmore I remember it had something to do with the dates of arrival either before or after. We always carefully made the plan to maximize how many places and people we could visit. We stayed with my husband's aunt & uncle for a few days while we were in Canmore. My husband was partially raised there so wanted to show the boys where he had hiked and fished when he was young. He enjoyed sharing his childhood memories with us. We hauled a few rocks home from the Bow River so we could paint them (one still lives in our garden). Nostalgia & making memories - CHECK!




After leaving Canmore we headed to the Frank Slide (Alberta, Canada), and then on to Fort Steele (British Columbia, Canada).
Geology - CHECK! Heritage town - CHECK!







After a few hours exploring Fort Steele we headed off to try to make the last ferry from the East side of Kootenay Lake to Balfour where my parents lived. As we traveled the dark windy road we made an alternate plan of where we would park the travel trailer to sleep in if we missed the last ferry of the evening. We made the ferry with two sleeping little boys. The next morning they woke up at Grandma's house. We spent the rest of the week visiting family and friends. 





We then headed home after spending 3 weeks on the road: traveling 4885 kms, spending 52 hours in the vehicle, visiting 12 attractions, & enjoying the company of family members in 3 provinces.  


Not to be forgotten is the souvenirs they each chose at every location. By the time we arrived home our vehicle was heavier, and our pockets lighter.
The new experiences and information we collected - PRICELESS!







We traveled a lot while they were growing up. Sometimes we spent a little bit of money by staying close to home or camping. Sometimes we spent a lot of money by traveling further away and doing lots of activities. 


When my husband and I look back on those trips we have fond memories. We loved introducing our kids to new experiences and new places. Only rarely did we hear "are we there yet?".  We took several trips that looked very similar to the one outlined here. 


Our boys don't remember the trips the same way we do. Would they honestly have preferred a 'real' vacation?  Then again maybe my husband's gravol-sleep trips were remembered differently by his parents. 





Making memories - One trip at a time!



This is why I search - 



Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!
















***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***









Sources:

A B.C. museum says it’s preserved the railcar from which Pierre Trudeau gave the finger to protesters, National Post, published August 22, 2016, Retrieved October 15th 2019 from
https://nationalpost.com/news/politics/a-b-c-museum-says-its-preserved-the-railcar-from-which-pierre-trudeau-gave-the-finger-to-protesters

Head Smashed In Buffalo Jump, Alberta Wow, Retrieved October 15th 2019 from 
http://www.albertawow.com/hikes/Head_Smashed_In_Buffalo_Jump/Buffalo_Jump.htm

Head-Smashed-In Buffalo Jump, UNESCO World Heritage Centre, Retrieved October 15th 2019 from
https://whc.unesco.org/en/list/158/


Royal Tyrrell Museum of Palaeontology, Retrieved October 15th 2019 from
http://www.tyrrellmuseum.com/index.htm


Travels with Pierre, August 12th, 1982, Railroaders' Nostalgia, Train Orders, retrieved October 15th 2019 from 
https://www.trainorders.com/discussion/read.php?18%2C2791016%2C2791016#msg-2791016

Three Valley Gap, Retrieved October 15th 2019 from
https://www.3valley.com/heritage_resort/roundhouse.htm


Trudeau Gets Asked: 'Why Did Your Dad Give Everyone In Western Canada The Middle Finger?' It became known as the "Salmon Arm Salute.",  published 01/27/2017, Huffington Post, Retrieved October 15th 2019 from 
https://nationalpost.com/news/politics/a-b-c-museum-says-its-preserved-the-railcar-from-which-pierre-trudeau-gave-the-finger-to-protesters








Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/




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Monday, October 7, 2019

Historical & Personal Context ~ Clyde Robertson (aka Max Pellack)

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks: Week 41 (CONTEXT)



Context breathes life into names and dates making ancestors real people.  When trying to figure out where & how to search context is what provides direction. It's in the context and stories where genealogy researchers bring ancestors to life.



When I first found out that my grandfather was not Scottish I would say his family immigrated from THE UKRAINE to Saskatchewan, Canada in 1909. I didn't understand why dropping THE was so important. 


Context provides the historical reasons for why it's just UKRAINE. When under Soviet rule by the Russians Ukraine was referred to as THE UKRAINE. Now their own country removing THE is part of celebrating their independence.


I grew up not knowing my cultural background or hearing family stories. It seems that some cultural preferences are inborn. I remember coming home from school in about grade 1, and asking my mom for boiled cabbage with butter and vinegar for my after school snack. 




My dad grew up Scottish. My mom grew up Scottish & English. Cabbage was not a part of their growing up. I loved cabbage prepared in any form from a very young age.  My body knew my cultural heritage long before I did. 


Context is an important part of understanding your family's history.


When trying to figure out why my grandfather changed his name, nationality, and birthplace I researched the persecution of Ukrainian people in Canada. My ancestors were not interned during World War 1, but many Canadian Ukrainians were. Although not interned they would have been registered as enemy aliens. Having recently left Ukraine where they faced hardship the family must have been terrified. This was likely why my grandfather and his younger siblings appear to have never had their home births registered.  My grandfather was a young child growing up in a country where Ukrainian people were persecuted during his early formative years. Worldwide Ukrainian folks were persecuted. Historically it appears as though the Scottish people were accepted. It's not a surprise grandpa would choose to be Scottish.


My family followed the Ukrainian Orthodox Greek Catholic faith in Canada. Ancestry DNA showed European Jewish for at least one of his parents. When I compare my DNA matches in Ancestry I believe Alexander's ancestors were Jewish, but without knowing the history of my family I have no context to be sure. I am left making guesses.  



Alexander & Mary (nee Maximiw) Pellack
My great grandparents

In the 1926 Canadian Prairie census I found my grandfather with his usual residence listed as Edenbridge.  Edenbrige was a Jewish community that had about 50 families in the 1920s. 


Who exactly Grandpa was living with is a mystery. 




His family also listed him as residing on the farm in nearby Gronlid (Willow Creek). I'm guessing the census taker asked who usually resided there, and his parents recorded him. Possibly he didn't reside at Edenbridge full-time?  Maybe he was visiting family?




Grandpa's mother tongue residing with his parents was recorded as Ukrainian. With Edenbridge as his usual residence English was listed as his mother tongue. 


Already beginning to distance himself from his Ukrainian heritage? To the best of my knowledge he never spoke Ukrainian after meeting grandma in 1939. My dad never knew that his father wasn't Scottish. When my Ancestry DNA came back showing I was 14% European Jewish dad was confident it wasn't from his side of the family. A few months later when his results came back with 27% European Jewish he was shocked. Dad immediately embraced his heritage. Dad never knew before receiving the results.


Grandpa left home about 1930 with one name, and met Grandma in 1939 with the other. Where he was those missing almost 10 years is a mystery. How he chose the name - a mystery. 



Clyde Robertson (Max Pellack) and
Mary Elizabeth Thomson
abt 1939


Clyde & Mary (nee Thomson) Robertson
aka Max Pellack


Grandpa never talked about his childhood. He never talked about being Jewish or Ukrainian. He claimed Scotland for his heritage. Grandpa died before any of us could hear his story.




Born Ukrainian in Gronlid Saskatchewan as Max Pellack. 




Died Scottish in Winnipeg as
Clyde Robertson.

Headstone



He was my grandpa. I loved him. I will never have enough context to truly understand grandpa's story. 



Me with my dad & grandpa
Clyde Robertson (Max Pellack)
I was 3 years old





Me with my dad, grandpa and grandma
Clyde Robertson (Max Pellack)
I was 9 years old





Collect the stories & context before it's too late!




This is why I search - 



Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!










***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***





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Treasures from the Library - Interlibrary Loans

Somehow Related Blog Spot,
Surprise -- I'm Ashkenazi Jewish

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Max Pellack ~ I'm Not a Diamond Heiress with a Tiny Flluuuffy Dog in a Sparkly Flllluuufffy Handbag!
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Sources:

Edenbridge Saskatchewan, Canada, JewishGen,, Retrieved October 5th 2019 from
https://kehilalinks.jewishgen.org/Edenbridge/





Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/





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Wednesday, October 2, 2019

Preserved Strong (the person) ~ Preserving Fall Harvest (the bounty)

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks: Week 40 (HARVEST)




When I first thought about the prompt HARVEST I looked to see if we had anyone in our family tree named Autumn. 



Nope!  


Then I remembered a branch of my tree that included early Puritan settlers of Massachusetts. I knew there were many Thankfuls and wondered about anyone named Bounty or Blessing - None! Feeling disappointed I kept looking through the unusual names. I found Preserved Strong. Born to Jebediah & Freedom (nee Woodward) Strong. 





"He was born March 29, 1680, and is said to have received
his name from the fact that he was born in a 
great snow storm, and preserved,
'notwithstanding its 
severity, 
and the extreme cold weather following.'" 1







I have always thought of the word preserved in reference to maintaining or retaining. 






The early Puritan settlers viewed it differently when naming children. 



"PRESERVED   m & f    English (Puritan)       Name given to a child when spared from certain death during childbirth."  2




Preserved Strong's Grandparents 

Abigail Ford (sister to my 10th great grandmother Hepzibah Ford)
BIRTH 8 OCT 1619 • Bridport, Dorset, England
DEATH 6 JUL 1688 • Northampton, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, USA
at the age of 16 she married widower
John Strong (Elder in the Puritan Church)
BIRTH 1610 • Taunton, Taunton Deane Borough, Somerset, England
DEATH 14 APR 1699 • Northampton, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, USA
John had 2 children with first wife Margery/Marjory (one survived to adulthood), and 16 children with second wife Abigail (14 survived to adulthood).



Abigail & John's first born (of the 14) was 

Jedediah Strong
BIRTH 7 MAY 1637 • Hingham, Plymouth, Massachusetts, United States
DEATH 22 MAY 1733 • Coventry, Tolland County, Connecticut, USA
who married
Freedom Woodward
BIRTH JUL 1641 • Dorchester Suffolk County Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 17 MAY 1681 • Northampton Hampshire County Massachusetts, US
Jebediah's second wife (1 child) was 
Abigail Bartlett (widow of John Stebbins, 10 children)
BIRTH 1637 • Cambridge, Middlesex County, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 15 JUL 1689 • Northampton, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, USA
Jebediah's third wife (no children) was
Mary Hart (widow of John Lee, 6 children
BIRTH 14 AUG 1630 • Hartford Hartford County Connecticut, USA
DEATH 10 OCT 1710 • South Hadley Hampshire County Massachusetts, USA



Jebediah & Freedom 12th child (of 14) was 
Preserved Strong
BIRTH 29 MAR 1680 • Northampton, Hampshire, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 26 SEP 1765 • Coventry, Tolland County (Tolland), Connecticut, USA
On October 23rd 1701 he married his step-sister 

Tabitha Lee (Mary (nee Hart) Lee's daughter)
BIRTH 11 NOV 1677 • Farmington, Hartford County, Connecticut, USA
DEATH 23 JUN 1750 • Coventry, Tolland County, Connecticut, USA

They were married 9 years after Jebediah's father and Tabitha's mother were married.

Preserved & Tabitha had 8 children


Noah Strong
BIRTH 20 SEP 1702 • Northampton, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 23 JUN 1771 • Addison, Addison County, Vermont, USA

Elizabeth Strong  ***
BIRTH 27 SEP 1704 • Northampton, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 4 MAY 1792 • Coventry, Tolland County, Connecticut, USA
*** (7th great grandmother of Princess Diana who married her not so distant cousin
      Joseph Strong, but that is a tale for another time )


Moses Strong (Twin)
BIRTH 14 MAY 1708 • Northampton, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH Unknown

Aaron Strong (Twin)
BIRTH 14 MAY 1708 • Northampton, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 1764 • Southampton, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, USA

Tabitha Strong 
BIRTH 13 AUG 1710 • Northampton, Hampshire County, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 20 NOV 1730 • Coventry, Tolland County, Connecticut, USA

Mary Strong
BIRTH 10 JUN 1714 • Northampton, Hampshire, Massachusetts, USA
DEATH 9 JUL 1754 • East Hartford, Hartford, Connecticut, USA

John Strong (a General)
BIRTH 25 FEB 1715 • Lebanon, New London, Connecticut, USA
DEATH Prob. Coventry, Tolland, Connecticut, USA

Enoch Strong
BIRTH 16 JUL 1720 • Coventry, Tolland County, Connecticut, USA
DEATH 1790 • Salisbury, Litchfield County, Connecticut, USA



Returning to the topic of fall harvest and preserving the bounty!



Growing up my mom always scooted us kids away while she was preserving the garden harvest. She told us it was too dangerous for us to be underfoot. Once I was grown she confessed it was her way of getting some alone time, but it was too late for me to not be afraid of the process.
    

The first time my husband said he wanted to try canning I argued with him that the process was subject to explosions in the kitchen and if he wasn't careful the food he made could kill us. I have repeated a variation of this sentiment for 25 years. 



Luckily for our family he doesn't listen to me. All winter long we enjoy HIS jams, pickles, salsa, canned fruit, and frozen vegies. I take no credit for any of the harvested preserves. My fear is still solidly in place. There are times I suspiciously look at the jar to see if it looks like it holds my impending death. I avoid the kitchen (or crane my neck suspiciously from the doorway) while he is processing his preserves. I am visualizing explosions that involve goo dripping down the walls with ginormous shards of glass embedded everywhere. Now that he wears glasses I no long discreetly place safety goggles on the counter. I am only slightly exaggerating my fear of the preserving process.




 

Childhood fears taken into adulthood!







This is why I search - 



Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!
















***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***





Related Previous Blogs:

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Footnotes:

1 JOHN LEE: Of Farmington, Hartford County, Conn., and His Descendants
written by Sarah Marsh Lee, 2nd edition compiled by Leonard Lee & Sarah Fiske Lee, Norwich, 1897, p. 467 retrieved October 1st 2019 from 
https://books.google.ca/books?id=I-q3AE_JbngC&pg=PA467&dq=%22he+was+born+march+29,+1680,+and+is+said+to+have+received+his+name%22&hl=en&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwj4h-jxt_7kAhXVIDQIHVJ2DQ8Q6AEIKjAA#v=onepage&q=%22he%20was%20born%20march%2029%2C%201680%2C%20and%20is%20said%20to%20have%20received%20his%20name%22&f=false

2 
Behind the Name, Puritan Names, Preserved, retrieved October 1st 2019 from 
https://www.behindthename.com/submit/names/usage/puritan

Sources:

Ancestor Biographies Blog Spot, Father or Step-father to 32 Children — Jedediah Strong, Retrieved October 2nd 2019 from     
http://ancestorbios.blogspot.com/2012/03/father-or-step-father-to-32-children.html

Ancestor Biographies Blog Spot, Pregnant Each Year of Married Life – Freedom Woodward, Retrieved October 2nd 2019 from
http://ancestorbios.blogspot.com/2012/03/mother-of-fourteen-children-freedom.html

Ancestry Island, Monday Is for Mothers : Freedom Woodward (1642 - 1681), Retrieved October 2nd 2019 from
http://ancestryisland.blogspot.com/2015/08/monday-is-for-mothers-freedom-woodward.html

Find A Grave, Mary Hart Lee Strong,  Retrieved October 2nd 2019 from
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/36254936/mary-lee_strong

Find A Grave, Preserved Strong,  Retrieved October 2nd 2019 from
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/36164159/preserved-strong

John Lee and His Descendants 1634--1878, Sarah Marsh Lee, Norwich, 1878, retrieved October 1st 2019 from
https://www.mightyape.co.nz/product/john-lee/27342962




Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/




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include a link to the specific blog and
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Please & Thank you!


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