This is my space to share my quest to collect as many broken branches as I can in my fractured family tree which resembles a bramble bush more then a proper tree. As I go forward in this blogging journey I hope to share how I have searched far & wide for family - with no regard for where they come from or if I should really want them.
You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

Showing posts with label week 9. Show all posts
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Wednesday, February 26, 2025

Santa ~ Wears Birkenstocks

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2025: Week 9 (FAMILY SECRET)


When I first thought about Family Secret I was thinking about historical scandals. 

When the email prompt arrived from Amy telling of her grandfather secretly playing Santa I decided to share our family's Secret Santa story.

Christmas 2024 Chris was asked to be Santa for his workplace's Christmas Party . 

This was the first time he had ever been asked.

During that party he held 2 roles. 

He was the cook for the pancake breakfast doing all the prep in the morning and cooking at the event, and clean up after.

Once most of the party goers had eaten he slipped away to get Santa ready. 

He was snuck out the backdoor by his secret service entourage.

His driver drove around the block so he could make a grand entrance from the front.

As they pulled into the front driveway 'Here Comes Santa Claus" began announcing his arrival.

The moment he got out of the car the crowd erupted with excitement.

Those kids did not see Chris - they only saw Santa.

Each of the children had a chance to visit with Santa who magically knew details about their lives that convinced them he was the real Santa.

He decided to use the vinyl boot covers that sat on top of his signature Birkenstock sandals he wears all year round.

One child asked him when the vinyl slipped to reveal the sandal, and Santa replied that normally he's in the North Pole so finds the weather in Canada too warm for boots.

I had wondered if any of them might recognize him as the person who jovially handed them their pancakes earlier.

As I listened to the chatter happening all over not one child said anything suggesting he wasn't the real Santa.

In fact I heard some talking about him being the real Santa because of what he knew when talking to them. 

One of the children asked if they could do a Christmas Train, and Santa wholeheartedly agreed.

It was so much fun to watch the kids and Santa traveling all over with the train of kids while the parents snapped photos.

When it was my turn to sit on Santa's knee he whispered in my ear "When I walked into the crowd of kids even I believed Santa had arrived".

The magic of Santa was enchanting.

As they were leaving many of the children stopped to say goodbye to Santa. 

One youngster had tears in his eyes as he hugged Santa.

Chris was honestly the best Santa.

He was jovial, fun, and believable even if he was wearing Birkenstock sandals.


 When someone you love is magical!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***



Photos:

Personal


Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



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Wednesday, February 28, 2024

The Distance Between ~ Max Pellack & Clyde Robertson

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2024: Week 9 (CHANGING NAMES)


I knew my grandpa as Clyde Robertson born in San Francisco, USA. on May 10th 1910. He was an only child with deceased parents by the time he met my grandma.

That was all I knew until, at the age of 29, I heard a rumour that Grandpa might have been a man named Max Pellack born in Gronlid, Saskatchewan, Canada. 

Prior to that day I never questioned grandpa's name. 

To be honest - I'm not sure I really thought about him having an actual name - he was just Grandpa.

Me with Dad & Grandpa

It took me 20 years to prove, but the confirmation that Clyde Robertson and Max Pellack were the same person came via DNA matching. 

I then began searching for records, and discovered the distance between Max Pellack & Clyde Robertson wasn't a direct line as I had thought.

In the 1911 census he was Nicolas Pelick (Age 1, born June 1910)

 
In the 1916 prairie census he was Max Peleck (Age 6)


In the 1921 census he was Max Pelleck (Age 12, listed as a daughter)


The 1926 census was a bit harder to find Grandpa. I had to browse page by page scanning the list of names. I finally found Grandpa enumerated twice. His age varied, but the other details are enough to suggest they are both him.  Once with his family on the homestead as Max Pelyck (age 17) and once in Prince Albert as Max Pellack (Age 18).  

I probably would have never found the second entry had I not found him enumerated without the rest of his family first. 

How is it that he could have been recorded twice?  

Likely his parents were asked for who normally resides here, and included Max even though he was not currently at home. 

For the 1931 census I find Maxwell Pellack (age 22) in Quebec. He claims to have been born in Manitoba. He also claims both his parents were born in Manitoba. The details don't exactly match, but they are close enough to suggest this is my grandfather. As time went on we know he was altering his name/details so I don't have any concerns accepting this as a 'reasonably exhaustive search'.

It is in the years between 1932 and 1939 that he began using the name Clyde Robertson.  Exactly when & why I have not yet determined.  These 7 years are still a mystery at this time.

May 19th 2019 I requested my grandfather's military record. I would have loved to see the reaction of the Library & Archives Canada staff member as they read my confusing application. 

May 17th 2023 I received Grandpa's Military record which enlightened some, but also added more levels of confusion. 

September 5th 1939 Clyde Robertson enlisted in the Canadian Military at Innisfail, Red Deer, Alberta, Canada. He joined the Calgary Highlanders. He claimed to be 30 years old. 
    - he was 29. 

Records show he spoke English & French, but didn't read French.
         This is likely true since he was in Quebec for the 1931 census. 
        - He also spoke Ukrainian which never appears on any of Clyde Robertson's records.

He was single on the records so listed his father, Alexander Robertson, residing at 321 Pender Street, Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada as his next of kin. 
        - his father was Alexander Pellack residing in Gronlid, Saskatchewan, Canada

He claimed to born in Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada. 
        - he was born on the homestead at Gronlid, Saskatchewan, Canada
        -  Not too long after he enlisted he met Grandma in Calgary, and claimed San Francisco as his birthplace. 

He claimed to reside in Kamloops where he was a chemist, but also recorded he was not working at the time of his enlistment.

He claimed to have a highschool diploma, a Bachelor degree in Chemistry & Physics, and a Master's Degree in Chemistry & Physics from Minnesota State University. He further claimed to have attended Saint Paul Technical Vocational Institute  in St. Paul, Minnesota, USA.
        - he did not graduate highschool.
        - In the 1950s he earned his credentials as an Accountant.
        - He told grandma his family was from Minneapolis, Minnesota, USA

He claimed to have worked in a mine refinery for one year, and as a gold mine analyst for Rock Island Mines in the Cariboo.
        - Although I have found a few references to Rock Island Mines in my searching none of them are gold mines in the Cariboo region of British Columbia.

Clyde Robertson denied any knowledge, experience, or interest in farming.
        he was born on the homestead into a farming family. 

January 9th 1940 Clyde was given permission to marry according to his military record. Also recorded was the wedding took place on February 17th 1940, and he was given leave to report back on February 21st for duty.  

Calgary Herald, 22 Feb 1940

This photo was taken December 1940 on Granville Street, Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada

Clyde & Mary (nee Thomson) Robertson

January 22nd 1941 Clyde Robertson was discharged from the Military as unfit for duty. The foot injury during a training exercise resulted in damage that made him unable to perform the duties of a soldier. This injury resulted in a lifelong Veteran's Affairs pension for Clyde Robertson. 

The military records note he was admitted to the hospital on January 20th 1941 'sick', and discharged from the military 2 days later. It doesn't state exactly what he was sick with. Looking at the photo above he doesn't look like he has a foot injury that would make him unfit for duties  a month later, but according to the tale the injury had already occurred. There is a possibility the foot injury is family lore, and not the actual reason for him being unfit for duty. 

Regardless of why - he did receive a Veteran's Affairs Military pension for his injury/illness. 

After his death his widow Mary Robertson continued to receive it. 

His identity as Clyde Robertson stood the test of time with the Canadian Military. 

Once more records are available for the 1930s I may find more about Grandpa Max/Clyde using the details in his military records. Were they entirely untrue? Or were their truths weaved throughout? Only future records will assist with this.

Through the 1940s Grandma and Grandpa lived in Calgary, Alberta, Canada and Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada. They had their children, and lived life.

In 1961 Grandma and the kids lived in Vancouver, and Max Pellack appears in the Henderson directory as the Office Manager for Paramount Motors residing at 738 Alfred Street in Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada. Also included are his brother Mike & nephew Alvin.  This address was updated in his Clyde Robertson military record for 1961 for his military pension to be mailed.  


This is also when Max discovered diamonds in Northern Saskatchewan

Winnipeg Free Press 20 Sep 1961

By 1962 Grandpa & Grandma with their kids are residing together again.

1962 the voter's list has Clyde & Mary Robertson residing down the street from his 1961 - now at 1122 Alfred Street in Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada. This address is confirmed in the 1963 Henderson Directory where Clyde is recorded as the Accountant with Tom's Speedy Muffler along with wife Mary & son Colin. The 3 younger children were not old enough to be recorded. 



By 1964 the family has moved to 1870 Williams Street, Toronto, Ontario, Canada according to the Henderson Directory. 

November 13th 1964 there is a request for Clyde's military medals to be sent to an address (unit 24, 310 Lonsdale Road, Toronto Ontario, Canada). These medals were his CVSM & War Medal 1935-1945. 

BUT
The 1965 Voter's list has Max Pellack with wife Mary living at 1535 Bathurst Street, Toronto, Ontario, Canada.  he is a bookkeeper. In 1964 Clyde notified the Canadian Military of the new address (matching below) for his military pension to be mailed. 


I wonder if the family was moving a lot because it appears as though there were 3 different addresses for 1964.

Grandma never used the name Pellack - I wonder if she even knew she was recorded as Pellack or how that came about? 


Max Pellack was born May or June 1910 & never died. 
Clyde Robertson was never born & died July 11th 1986



When your research turns into a search for 2 truths & a lie....  errr - I mean many lies & a truth!!! 


This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***



Photos:

Personal


Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



If you reference or use my blog posts in any way please
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Please & Thank you!

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Wednesday, March 1, 2023

Remembering Those Born Still ~ Remembering Those Gone Too Soon

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2023: Week 9 (GONE TOO SOON)


October 15th is National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day. Every year the whole month of October is dedicated to remembering infants who were born still or left us too soon. 

Prior to 1988, when October was declared the month to remember, society didn't openly talk about miscarriages. It wasn't until 2002 that a specific day in October was chosen as a day to remember. 

When my husband and I experienced infertility & miscarriage in the 1990s it was not talked about. If it was talked about it was spoken about in whispers with a tone of blaming & shaming. 

We experienced difficulty conceiving. 

We experienced difficulty in staying pregnant. 

The babies we lost to miscarriage were not discussed. 

They were not honoured. 

We didn't plant trees. 

We were told to forget about them, wait some time, and try again. 

30 years later, and we have still not forgotten.

The pregnancy for our oldest son was difficult. At 5 weeks the ultrasound showed we were miscarrying. At 20 weeks we went into pre-term labour which they were able to stop. 

The majority of that 10 months was spent on bedrest in and out of the hospital. 

In the end he was delivered by emergency cesarean after his heart  stopped. 

Nothing about the pregnancy was as we planned, but it was successful. 

We had a healthy baby in arms. 

We were so grateful. 

We were also surprised at how insensitive people can be. 

Not too long after his birth our landlady stopped by with a gift. She casually mentioned that had I tried to be more active during the pregnancy the c-section could have been avoided.

I was speechless. I had laid on the couch for 10 months to keep the child, we so desperately wanted, alive. I wasn't laying around for my benefit. In fact it was the hardest thing I have ever done, but I did it because our child needed me to. Plus the reason for the c-section was my congenital anomaly not because I had laid around on the couch.

My half of the fertility issues were due to a Septate Uterus (See sources below for info about). The challenge in staying pregnant was due to his placenta attaching to the septate that had no blood supply. One edge of the placenta was never fully attached for the entire pregnancy. The septate also made natural delivery impossible. Had this occurred in the past I would have laboured until both of us died. They may have been able to save the baby, but the odds were not great for that to happen since the medical interventions we had during pregnancy were not available then. 

I am grateful that society has made it okay to talk about infertility and infant loss. 

When I find babies who died in our family tree I am always struck by the knowledge that it could have been our firstborn and I. 

There would have been no second child. 

This family would not have existed







30 years later we have two amazing sons. We are a family that wouldn't have existed before medical interventions became possible. 

Our story has been waiting 30 years to be shared - it refuses to be forgotten


While adding folks to my father-in-law's line this past few weeks I found an Infant Pangborn. She is my husband's 7th great-grandaunt. I don't know what caused her death. She was born in New York, USA 1695, and died with only the name Infant Pangborn. 

Her line ends right where it started, Infant Pangborn.  

There is nothing more. 

I have added her to our Bramble Bush & written about her this week. 

She will not be forgotten.

My husband's father's maternal line descends through her brother (my husband's 7th great grandfather)
William Pangborn
BIRTH 1706 • Rahway, Union, New Jersey, USA
DEATH 1759 • Woodbridge, Middlesex, New Jersey, USA
and his wife
Mary Ann Coddington
BIRTH ABT. 1706 • Woodbridge, Middlesex, New Jersey, USA
DEATH 1780 • Woodbridge, Middlesex, New Jersey, USA




Remembering the babies born still and those gone too soon!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***



Sources:

Young, Becky. Septate Uterus. Healthline. Reviewed by Judith Marcin, MD. Originally published March 2nd 2018. Retrieved February 18th 2023 from https://www.healthline.com/health/septate-uterus

National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day – October 15, 2023. National Today. Retrieved February 13th 2023 from
https://nationaltoday.com/national-pregnancy-and-infant-loss-remembrance-day/



Photos:

Personal


Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



If you reference or use my blog posts in any way please
include a link to the specific blog and
credit http://somehowrelated.blogspot.com/
My blogs are ©Deborah Buchner, 2014 forward.
All rights reserved.
Please & Thank you!

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Monday, February 28, 2022

Where My Story Began ~ My Heart Breaks For Ukraine


I am Canadian because my great grandparents, Alexander & Mary (nee Maximiw) Pellack,  immigrated from Ukraine in 1909.  

They started out in a one room cabin in Gronlid, Saskatchewan. 

They risked everything when they left Ukraine for Canada.

In the book, Our Courageous Pioneers, the journey was described by a family member when the book was published in 1991.

" ... The family departed by train from Skoroki to the port of Bremen, There, a wait of several days ensued while sufficient cargo of livestock and people were assembled to make the voyage profitable. Livestock were placed in the bottom and people were placed in the middle deck. Sometime in May, 1909, the leaky ship set out to sea With numerous stops for additional cargo and delays caused by traffic and icebergs, the voyage took some sixteen days.
Quebec felt cold. From the large gathering hall which was the dispersal point for all immigrants, the family was shuffled onto a train bound for Winnipeg and eventually to Star City.  Alexander's brother, Makita who immigrated to Canada two years earlier, met them at the train with a cart and oxen which he had hired from a neighbour. It was a long trip from Star City to the homestead east of Gronlid. Imagine bumping down cut lines, over stumps through sloughs. It was an unforgettable experience, a dark rainy night, with their first encounter with mosquitoes! ..." 1


Alexander & Mary (nee Maximiw) Pellack
my dad's grandparents - my great grandparents


My grandfather was their first born on the homestead in Saskatchewan.

Still standing in 2017.






Ukraine is 1/4 of where my story began. 







I have been unsuccessful in researching the family left behind who are now living through the Russian invasion.




My heart breaks for Ukraine 💔








This is why I search - 



Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!
















***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***





Footnote:

1 Our Courageous Pioneers : History of Gronlid and Surrounding Districts of Argus, Athol, Edenbridge, Freedom, Maryville, Murphy Creek, Sandhill Creek, Taelman, Taras, Teddington. (Melfort Saskatchewan: Phillips Publishers , 1991), 188


Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/




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Friday, February 28, 2020

Unknown Buchners - Death on a Street Car

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks: 2020 Week 9 (DISASTER)


I found this newspaper article online at the Welland History Blog Archive one time while I was searching the BUCHNER name online. 



1905


This was definitely a disaster when Mrs. James A Buchner died from a fall on the street car in 1905 at the age of 32. Her daughter (12 year old Dora), sister, niece & nephew were present when the accident causing her death occurred. She was from Bridgeburg, Ontario. She is buried in Doan's Ridge Cemetery in Welland, Ontario.



In reading the newspaper clipping it became obvious there was misinformation spreading about the accident that must have caused much injury to the surviving relatives. 


Her sister was Mrs. J.W. Buchner from Niagara Falls, New York. Both sisters were married to Buchners. The accident happened in Buffalo.


All that I know about this disaster is what I gleaned from this article.


I have not yet figured out how these sisters fit into my husband's family tree. I don't yet know their names. I don't know where James A Buchner & J.W. Buchner fit into the tree.  The past practice of not including the given names of women when they were married makes researching unknowns difficult. 


**see below for an update on names  



I won't give up until they are nicely placed exactly where they belong in our BRAMBLE BUSH FAMILY TREE.


Collecting people while trying to figure out the relationship!


This is why I search - 



Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!





****** Updated to add *******

Minnie Salome Niesz
born 14 Oct 1872, Humberstone, Ontario, Canada
daughter of George & Dorothea Niesz


married 14 Oct 1890

James Albert Buchner
born 15 May 1869, Crowland, Ontario, Canada
son of A (Allan, Alvin, Alom, etc...) & Nancy Buchner


their daughter

Dorothy B Buchner (known as Dora in article above)
born 19 Feb 1893, Ontario, Canada


**SOURCE: Ancestry records, 1901 census & marriage record


****** Still don't know how they fit in our tree *******












***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***






Sources:



Buchner 1905 death, Welland History - a project by S & B, retrieved February 28th 2020 from 
http://wellandhistory.ca/2018/12/buchner-1905-death-969-2/
http://wellandhistory.ca/2018/12/buchner-1905-death-970-2/
http://wellandhistory.ca/2018/12/buchner-1905-death-971-2/





Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/



If you reference or use my blog posts in any way please
include a link to the specific blog and
credit http://somehowrelated.blogspot.com/
My blogs are ©Deborah Buchner, 2014 forward.
All rights reserved.
Please & Thank you!


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