This is my space to share my quest to collect as many broken branches as I can in my fractured family tree which resembles a bramble bush more then a proper tree. As I go forward in this blogging journey I hope to share how I have searched far & wide for family - with no regard for where they come from or if I should really want them.
You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

Showing posts with label Alonzo Vannatter. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Alonzo Vannatter. Show all posts

Thursday, July 24, 2025

Remembering Ron ~ On His 79th Birthday

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2025: Week 30 (RELIGIOUS TRADITIONS)


Today, on Ron's 79th birthday, I will write about my father-in-law.

Ronald Clare (Ron) Buchner
Birth 24 JUL 1946 • Tillsonburg, Oxford, Ontario, Canada
Death 6 FEB 2021 • Puerto Vallarta Hospital, Puerto Vallarta, Jalisco, Mexico


Ron will always be remembered as a larger than life man who kept everyone amused. He really was the life of the party.

Chris was Ron's first born child, and only son.


Ron was the grandson on Brethern in Christ Pastor, Alonzo Vannatter.

Alonzo Vannatter with great grandson Chris

Remembering Ron on his birthday











Ron school photo - 2nd row third from the left
1957 1958 school year grade 5 and 6 Rolph St public school

Glendale Football 1961
































Now at rest






Gone too soon!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***




Photos:

Personal


Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



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Thursday, January 2, 2025

These Boots Are Made For Walking ~ Remembering Alonzo Vannatter

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2025: Week 1 (IN THE BEGINNING)


Whenever I hear the phrase IN THE BEGINNING I immediately think of Genesis from the bible. 

I didn't grow up with church as part of my family's life, but Chris did.

He is a Methodist Lay Pastor's grandson via his mom, and the great grandson of a Brethren In Christ Minister via his dad.

Chris can quote chapter and some exact verses from the bible - it makes for an awkward party trick.

He remembers going to both churches as a child.

The fire & brimstone going to hell sermons of his childhood terrified him.

It was those guilt panels installed in his childhood that randomly showed up in strange ways as we were raising our children.

I was never burdened by morality guilt having only attended church as a guest a few times in my childhood. 

When strange rules were put into effect I am fairly confident that our children thought it was me. 

With my prior work in social services I was not the one who had concerns about any behaviour as long as safety was practiced.

I was comfortable with uncomfortable conversations, and over time Chris became very good at them too.

Looking back at the beginning - I reflected on the Brethren in Christ church in Frogmore, Ontario (now called The Mission) where great grandpa Alonzo Vannatter was a Minister. 

In 1969 the church was fundraising for a new church building. 

"Of the $24,000 needed to build, about $10,000 was raised by a walkathon. A student in Alonzo Vannatter's Sunday school class of young people made the suggestion for this fundraising method when the pastor asked the class if they wished to help in raising the money. 

The walkathon became a community event. It was publicized by radio, newspaper, and even television and participated in by people ranging from a seventy-six year old undertaker (a long-time friend of Alonzo Vannatter) to a reporter from the Tillsonburg newspaper. Vannatter himself took part, in spite of his sixty-eight years and a heart attack 3 years earlier. (He brought himself into shape for the event by walking each day along the road in front of his house.) He was among the 128 out of 207 walkers who finished the twenty-five-mile walk. Even his twenty-two-months-old great grandson, Chris Buchner, took part, sponsored at $145 a mile." 1  


According to the book Chris was sponsored at $145/mile. The newspaper clipping claims $120/mile. Regardless what is correct there is no doubt this event was part of forming Chris' believe in his personal value.



When you find the cause for future in searching the past!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***



Footnotes:

1  Sider, Morris. E & Vannatter, Alonzo. (1978). Fruit from Woods and Sands: The story of Houghton Mission. Evangel Press. Indiana. Page 83-84 


Sources:

Sider, Morris. E & Vannatter, Alonzo. (1978). Fruit from Woods and Sands: The story of Houghton Mission. Evangel Press. Indiana.

Houghton Brethren In Christ Community Church. Site: Frogmore - Norfolk County Rd 28. Service: The Mission. Retrieved December 30th 2024 from
https://info-bhn.cioc.ca/record/SIM0699

The Mission Church. Retrieved December 30th 2024 from
https://www.themissionchurch.ca/



Photos:

Personal


Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



If you reference or use my blog posts in any way please
include a link to the specific blog and
credit http://somehowrelated.blogspot.com/
My blogs are ©Deborah Buchner, 2014 forward.
All rights reserved.
Please & Thank you!

______________________________________________________________

Monday, January 3, 2022

This Bramble Bush Foundation ~ Us

Welcome to Week #1 of the 52 Ancestors in 52 weeks 2022.

This is my 4th year participating, and I am super grateful to Amy Johnson Crow for inspiring me to write about the folks in our Bramble Bush. 

If you want to sign up there is a link at the bottom of this blog.

The challenge took me from an uncommitted relationship with my genealogy blog (2014-2018) to telling the stories of our ancestors every week (2019 to 2021).

I look forward to sharing more stories for those who are interested now, and for those who will become interested in the future.

Primarily I write for me. It's a way to turn the list of names and places into living breathing people.

These are the people who impacted who we are today. They need to be remembered.

This first week's prompt is FOUNDATIONS.

To start this year I will focus on the bottom of this Bramble Bush. 

US!

First there were two people living their own lives:

Chris

He's the tiny baby in the carriage with his parents

from the newspaper on the day he was born - with his mom


with his little sister


with his little sister and grandpa

with his little sister

with his little sister

with his little sister



With his great grandfather, Alonzo Vannatter

with his little sister

with his little sister



with his uncle - his dad's youngest brother



with his mom

Basic Training Canadian Military


Deb 

with mom

with my brother and dad

with my brother and dad


with my aunt, my mom's younger sister

with my mom, dad, and two uncles (mom's youngest siblings)

with mom & dad, and the puppy whose name I don't know


with mom, dad, brother, great grandmother, and aunt (mom's younger sister)

mom and I

with brother, dad, mom

with younger brother



dad trimmed my hair for school photos while mom was away

with cousin, brother, uncle (mom's youngest brother)


with cousin & brother




with aunt (mom's younger sister)

with mom, stepfather, and younger brothers

with younger brother

with brother and great grandmother (Nellie May nee Cannon Graham)

with brother and great grandmother (Nellie May nee Cannon Graham)

with brother and great grandmother (Nellie May nee Cannon Graham)

with brother

with mother





with mother




with brother and cousin

with mother and brother

with mother and brother

with mom

with aunt, mom's youngest sister

With friend Karl Turner for his Grad

with brother, step-father & grandparents

about a year before meeting Chris

Not too long before meeting Chris

They became a couple:







They became a family:








  






























And the family grew

AND grew

Their nest emptied:

































Once the nest empties there is more time & money for genealogy --- errr I mean fun!!!




This is why I search - 


Cause ... 






You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!









***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***



Links:

Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/



If you reference or use my blog posts in any way please
include a link to the specific blog and
credit http://somehowrelated.blogspot.com/
My blogs are ©Deborah Buchner, 2014 forward.
All rights reserved.
Please & Thank you!

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