This is my space to share my quest to collect as many broken branches as I can in my fractured family tree which resembles a bramble bush more then a proper tree. As I go forward in this blogging journey I hope to share how I have searched far & wide for family - with no regard for where they come from or if I should really want them.
You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

Wednesday, February 15, 2023

O U T C A S T ~ When the Letters Make a Family

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2023: Week 7 (OUTCAST)


We have just returned from Ontario where we attended a funeral for my husband's grandfather & a graveside memorial to inter his father's ashes.

His Grandfather died January 29th at the age of 96. His father died February 6th 2021 at the age of 74. His dad's death occurred in Mexico hence the delay in interment. 

It was a very emotional 3 nights & 4 days with extended family. 

Shared grief is an amazing thing. 

The attachment & bonding that occurred this week left me reluctant to focus on anything to do with distance, estrangement, or outcasts.

Instead I decided to use the letters as my guide to feature family names I may not have written about previously using the letters O U T C A S T 

Looking at out Bramble Bush I was intrigued to find a grandmother for each of the letters except U, and then I discovered UNKNOWN. 

I now had a grandmother via the same family line for each letter. 

It's often easy to overlook the maiden name for the females in our trees when focusing on direct lines. 

I was surprised to realize how many grandmother's belong to one family line - specifically the Bayes/Merrill line is this week's focus.

I decided it's time to focus on my grandmothers & their family names.

Artemissa (nee Merrill) Bayes


Artemissa (Artimissia) Merrill
BIRTH 1 JUN 1842 • Cramahe township, Ontario, Canada
DEATH 14 NOV 1936 • Cambellford, Northumberland, Ontario, Canada
married
Solomon Bayes
BIRTH 31 AUG 1845 • Campbellford, Northumberland, Ontario, Canada
DEATH 16 SEP 1907 • Campbellford, Northumberland, Ontario, Canada


Here are 7 ancestors of my X3 great grandmother, Artemissa above


Osborne

My 10th great-grandmother
Sarah Osborne
BIRTH 1584 • Halstead, Kent, England
DEATH 1642 • Hartford, Hartford County, Connecticut, United States of America
married
Richard Lyman
BIRTH 30 OCT 1580 • High Ongar, Essex, England
DEATH SEP 1640 • Hartford, Hartford, Connecticut, USA


Unknown

My 11th great-grandmother
Eveffa Unknown
BIRTH 1599 • Chilmark, Dukes County, MA, USA
DEATH Unknown
married
Edward Hillman
BIRTH 1591 • Chilmark, Dukes County, MA, USA
DEATH Unknown


Taylor

My 8th great-grandmother
Mary Miriam Taylor
BIRTH 14 MAR 1688 • Westfield, Hampden, Massachusetts, United States
DEATH 13 JUL 1752 • Westfield, Massachusetts Bay, British America
married
Ebenezer Bush
BIRTH 24 JUL 1687 • Westfield, Hampden, Massachusetts, United States
DEATH 10 NOV 1757 • Westfield, Hampden, Massachusetts, United States


Charde

My 10th great-grandmother
Elizabeth Charde
BIRTH 1589 • Thorncombe, Bridgeport, Dorsetshire, England
DEATH 18 APR 1643 • Windsor, Hartford, Colony of Connecticut, British Colonial America
married
Thomas Ford
BIRTH 6 JAN 1589 • Powerstock, Dorset, England, United Kingdom
DEATH 28 NOV 1676 • Northampton, Hampshire, Massachusetts, USA


Axtell

My 10th great-grandmother
Mary Axtell
BIRTH 25 SEP 1639 • Berkhamsted, Hertfordshire, England
DEATH 14 APR 1704 • Sudbury, Middlesex County, Massachusetts
married
John Goodenow
BIRTH JAN 1634 • Donhead St Andrew, Wiltshire, England
DEATH 6 AUG 1721 • Wayland, Massachusetts, USA


Scarlett

My 12th great-grandmother
Jane Scarlett
BIRTH London, Middlex, England, United Kingdom
DEATH 1650 • Scituate, Plymouth, Massachusetts, USA
married
William Dennis
BIRTH MAY 1593 • Kent, England, United Kingdom
DEATH 16 FEB 1649 • Scituate, Plymouth, Massachusetts, USA


Treat 

My 9th great-grandmother
Susanna Treat
BIRTH 8 OCT 1629 • Weathersfield, Hartford, Connecticut, USA
DEATH 19 NOV 1705 • Hartford, Hartford, Connecticut, USA
married
Robert Webster 
BIRTH 17 NOV 1619 • Cossington, Charnwood, Leicestershire, England
DEATH 1676 • Hartford, Hartford County, Connecticut, US



Give me an O, Give me a U, Give me a T, Give me a C, Give me an A, Give me an S, Give me a T - Whatta ya got?  


FAMILY!!! 



This is why I search - 


Cause ... 





You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!







***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***




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Amy Johnson Crow, 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Challenge
https://www.amyjohnsoncrow.com/52-ancestors-in-52-weeks/



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