Traditions ~ Fiddler on the Roof

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks 2022: Week 50 (TRADITIONS) 

In thinking about Tradition I couldn't help, but think about the movie Fiddler on the Roof. 

As a child I saw it in the theatre. 

As an adult I have seen the play a few times. 

I love the story.  

I love Teyve's song Tradition.

The first time I saw it I had no idea any of it had any connection to me or my story.  

The traditions seemed quant & completely outside of my sphere of knowledge. 

Teyve tells us:

"Because of our traditions,

We've kept our balance for many, many years.

Here in Anatevka we have traditions for everything...

how to eat, how to sleep, even, how to wear clothes.

For instance, we always keep our heads covered

and always wear a little prayer shawl...

This shows our constant devotion to God.

You may ask, how did this tradition start?

I'll tell you - I don't know. But it's a tradition...1 

Miriam-Webster Dictionary defines TRADITION as:

1 a: an inherited, established, or customary pattern of thought, action, or      behavior (such as a religious practice or a social custom)
  b: a belief or story or a body of beliefs or stories relating to the past that are commonly accepted as historical though not verifiable
2: the handing down of information, beliefs, and customs by word of mouth or by example from one generation to another without written instruction
3: cultural continuity in social attitudes, customs, and institutions
4: characteristic manner, method, or style   2

I grew up without Tradition. 

These traditions were entirely lost for my branch of this Bramble Bush. 

Information, belief, and customs were not passed down to this generation. 

At the age of 29 years old I heard some gossip that my grandfather may not actually exist. 

He might actually be a different person. 

The family name on my birth certificate one chosen at random.

How could this be?

My grandfather walked away from his family, and recreated himself as a new person with an entirely different cultural heritage.

It took me 20 years to confirm the tale was true via genealogical DNA matching. 

That DNA test also revealed that one of my great grandparents was Ashkenazi Jewish (or they were both half). 

My grandfather was the first born in Canada. 

He was born the year after their arrival from Ukraine on the homestead in Gronlid, Saskatchewan, Canada. 

The family were members of the Greek Catholic Church. 

I grew up never knowing the part of my genealogical story that began in Ukraine & included Jewish roots.

When I first learned about both I felt sad that I never knew where I fit in my own family history.  

I felt ripped off to have never known anything of my heritage from that one branch of my Bramble Bush. 

This was where my researching first began.

I never knew, but now I do. 

I find myself offended when I hear dismissive remarks about what is happening in Ukraine today. 

I can't help but think about how Ukraine was for my family before their arrival in Canada. 

Fiddler on the roof is set about 1905 Ukraine. 

My family was there during that time. 

It tells a tale that is still relevant today.

Fiddler on the Roof was set in a fictional village in Ukraine.
In 2014 the fictional village came to life:

As Russian troops pour into Ukraine and bomb its cities, many Ukrainians are on the move both internally and in an attempt to leave for other countries. Border crossings in the country’s west and south are attracting thousands of prospective exiles, according to the Guardian. There are also at least 100,000 internally displaced persons.

Some of the Jews who live in Ukraine — who number at least 43,000 and potentially many more — are part of that unfortunate migration.

“We just put many mattresses in the strongest part of the sturdiest building. It will have to do for now,” Moshe Azman, one of several men bearing the title of chief rabbi in Ukraine, told the Jewish Telegraphic Agency about what is happening at the residential compound near Kyiv that Azman and his community first set up in 2014 to aid Jewish refugees fleeing the last Russian invasion.

Named Anatevka — a reference to the fictional hometown of Tevye the Dairyman from the famed Broadway musical “Fiddler on the Roof” and the iconic Sholom Aleichem short stories on which it was based — the compound has seen dozens of families arrive from more densely populated areas, Azman said. 3

The village the story was originally modeled on Boyarka, Kyiv Oblast, Ukraine which is about 13kms from the newly created town of Anatevka (noted above). 

Both are about 400kms from Skoryky, Ternopil Oblast, Ukraine where my father's paternal immigrant ancestor story began. 

As I have watched the Russian invasion of Ukraine unfold I wonder how many of my family members are at risk. 

My great grandparents risked all to bring their family to Canada.

Alexander & Mary (nee Maximiw) Pellack
My great grandparents

How many did they leave behind?  

I don't know, and fear I may never.

The answer to why my grandfather walked away from his family is lost.

Exactly how the traditions were left behind will always be a part of the story I will never know. 

My heart breaks for Ukraine!!!

This is why I search - 

Cause ... 

You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family you know!

***Any errors are my own. Please send me any updates or corrections via the comments at the bottom of this blog post***

Video:

Fiddler on the roof - Tradition (with subtitles). guru006. Originally published Dec 24, 2006.  Retrieved December 12th 2022 from
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gRdfX7ut8gw

Footnotes:

1  Fiddler on the Roof - Tradition Lyrics. The Musical Lyrics.   Retrieved December 12th 2022 from
https://www.themusicallyrics.com/f/371-fiddler-on-the-roof-the-musical-lyrics/4062-tradition-lyrics-fiddler-on-the-roof.html

2  Tradition. Definition. Miriam-Webster Dictionary.  Retrieved December 12th 2022 from https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/tradition#:~:text=noun,as%20historical%20though%20not%20verifiable

3  Liphshiz,  Cnaan. Ukrainian Jews, scarred by a bloody history, find themselves refugees once again.  Jewish Telegraphic Agency. Originally published February 25th 2022. Retrieved December 12th 2022 from
https://www.jta.org/2022/02/25/global/ukrainian-jews-scarred-by-a-bloody-history-find-themselves-refugees-once-again

Sources:

Anatevka. About Us. Retrieved December 12th 2022 from
https://www.anatevka.com/aboutus/

Beckerman, Jim. How Broadway's "Fiddler on the Roof," set in Ukraine, is newly relevant. New Jersey USA Today. Originally published March 5th 2022. Retrieved December 12th 2022 from
https://www.northjersey.com/story/entertainment/2022/03/25/ukraine-broadway-fiddler-roof-nj-school-theater-production/7159349001/

Fiddler on the Roof: Love’s Triumph Over Tradition. MBB220'S BLOG. LeHigh University. Retrieved December 12th 2022 from
https://wordpress.lehigh.edu/mbb220/fiddler-on-the-roof-loves-triumph-over-tradition/

Fiddler on the Roof - Tradition Lyrics. The Musical Lyrics.   Retrieved December 12th 2022 from
https://www.themusicallyrics.com/f/371-fiddler-on-the-roof-the-musical-lyrics/4062-tradition-lyrics-fiddler-on-the-roof.html

Law, Page R. Putin’s war: The musical ‘Fiddler on the Roof’ and Ukraine today. The Virginian Pilot. Originally published March 17th 2022. Retrieved December 12th 2022 from 
https://www.pilotonline.com/entertainment/arts/vp-db-fiddler-on-the-roof-031822-20220317-svpmcgtnn5hhdjvfuz5dhq4emm-story.html

Liphshiz,  Cnaan. Ukrainian Jews, scarred by a bloody history, find themselves refugees once again.  Jewish Telegraphic Agency. Originally published February 25th 2022. Retrieved December 12th 2022 from
https://www.jta.org/2022/02/25/global/ukrainian-jews-scarred-by-a-bloody-history-find-themselves-refugees-once-again

Mondello, Bob. If Russia's invasion of Ukraine feels familiar, look to Broadway in the '60s. National Public Radio. Originally published February 25th 2022. Retrieved December 12th 2022 from 
https://www.npr.org/2022/02/25/1083155890/if-russias-invasion-of-ukraine-feels-familiar-look-to-broadway-in-the-60s

Named for Fiddler on Roof’s Anatevka, new village to house Ukraine Jewish refugees. Originally published August 9th 2015. Retrieved December 12th 2022 from 
https://www.timesofisrael.com/named-for-fiddler-on-roofs-anatevka-new-village-to-house-ukraine-jewish-refugees/

There’s A Village In Ukraine Where Rudy Giuliani Is The Honorary Mayor. That’s Not The Weird Part Of This Story. BuzzFeed News. Originally published October 26th 2019 from https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/christopherm51/fiddlers-on-the-roof-ukraine-impeachment

Tradition. Definition. Miriam-Webster Dictionary.  Retrieved December 12th 2022 from https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/tradition#:~:text=noun,as%20historical%20though%20not%20verifiable

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